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Hey señora, let's get a cuarto.

Older Men Have Much More Sex Than Older Women (At Least In Spain)

We're glad they're sexually active, but the numbers just don't add up.

Who do you think of when you think of the most amorous people on Earth? Personally, I think of reality TV actors and actresses. But some of you think of denizens of southern Europe; your Frenchmen, Italians, Portuguese and Spaniards. The latter were recently the subject of a study that proved they are pretty damned into getting their swerve on at any age.

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Judi Dench dazzles at the movie's premiere

"Marigold Hotel" Star Judi Dench: Companionship Has No Age Limit

The legendary actress on how her role in "The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel" hits close to home.

It's funny – when our parents or grandparents hit retirement age and older, we often lose the ability to relate to them. We may think they're stubborn, incapable of change and reluctant to accept anything new in their life. But the heartfelt comedy released this weekend, "The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel," takes this idea and flips it on its head.

The Top 6 Reasons Aging Isn't So Bad [EXPERT]

The Top 6 Reasons Aging Isn't So Bad [EXPERT]

Good news for those struggling with the concept of getting older. There's much to look forward to!

Open a magazine or flip on the tv and you will notice a disturbing trend. Most of the people you’ll see are young and free of wrinkles. And tan. And in shape. And seemingly, endlessly happy. This of course, implicitly (and explicitly) sends the message that happiness lies in youth. And while we are all aware of the joys and benefits of being young (and even what’s scary about aging), how many are really in touch with the ADVANTAGES of getting older? Stay tuned and you might just look forward to what lies ahead.

Betty White
Betty White rules!

For Women, Sex Gets Better With Age—Right, Betty White?

As women age, their sexual desire declines -- but they're still incredibly satisfied in the bedroom.

Women like Betty White know that aging doesn't have to be something we dread. Yes, body parts may sag, faces may wrinkle and hairs may turn white, but getting older promises much more than a change in appearance—it promises high sexual satisfaction, too.

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What You Need To Know About Menopause And Sex

In addition to hot flashes and night sweats, a woman's sex life is also affected.

While many women are aware of menopausal symptoms like hot flashes and night sweats, the vaginal and sexual symptoms associated with menopause are less well-known.

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What To Expect When Your Husband Gets Viagra

It's time to talk about whether your marital sex life is working.

He's come home from the doctor with a prescription for Viagra! What does it mean? Is he going outside our relationship for sex? Doesn't he want me any more? These are the questions that go through most women's heads when the little blue pill shows up. T

Does Male Menopause Exist?

Does Male Menopause Exist?

Some men suffer the effects of very low testosterone male menopause but not as many as once thought.

A new British study of 3,000 men reveals that what many drug companies have called "hypogonadism" a sort of male menopause blamed on low testosterone—mood changes, body changes and a loss of energy—might just be plain, old aging. Nothing less. Nothing more.

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5 Reasons To Look Forward To Old-Age Love

Old age can be a time of discovery, of joy and of true love.

So often we fear growing old, or think of it as a time when life's possibilities will be closed to us. Today an article in the New York Times reminded us old age can be a time of discovery, of joy and of true love.

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Can Marrying Someone Younger Make You Live Longer?

Study shows that men with much younger wives live longer. Are cougars onto something?

A study shows that men with much younger wives live longer. The study, which was based on the death rates of the entire population of Denmark between 1990 and 2005, says if a man's wife is 15-17 years his junior, his chances of dying are cut by 20 percent. Are cougars onto something?

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5 Reasons To Grow Old With Someone

Aging can be scary, but growing old together is a blessing. Five things to look forward to.

On Monday The New York Times' "The New Old Age" blog published a piece called "6 Reasons To Grow Old," based on advice from Joshua O. Haberman, a 90-year-old rabbi. Sure, your skin may sag, your hands may shake, but growing old comes with great benefits—especially if you have someone to share your time with. Based on their post and on Haberman's observations, we've come up with six reasons it's great to grow old—together.