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Secrets Of The Male Mind: Ogling, Emotions And Sex

New book, The Male Brain, dives into the male mind to find insights on sex, ogling and emotions.

Why, we all seem to ask, do men always seem to zone out when we tell them about a bad day? And better yet, why do they say that they can't get enough of us and then ogle longingly at the next barely-dressed stranger to pass him by like she's a piece of meat? According to Louann Brizendine, M.D. and her new book The Male Brain, it's all part of the male mind, and he is NOT alone. Maybe mom was onto something during those times when all she had to say about your father was a grumbled, "he is such a man". Male minds do, indeed, work different than their female counterparts.

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The Links: Debating The Existence Of Blue Balls

Learn about men's need to ogle, Arianna Huffington's vacation and Levitra thievery.

Do blue ball exist? Is outercourse the answer? Why steal $7 million of Levitra (why not?)? Guys cheat during the summer. Arianna Huffington vacations with her ex, blogs about it. Would you obstruct justice for your guy? Do pickup lines work? At all? Guys are just programmed to ogle. One super star of Cosmo, Bonnie Fuller, interviews another, Helen Gurley Brown, magic happens.

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9 Things I Learned About Women From Editing Maxim

A former Maxim editor reveals the wisdom he gathered while working at the famed men's magazine.

I edited Maxim for four years, and let me tell you, we knew everything there was to know about guys. Like this: All guys really care about is girls. Our sex and relationship pieces tried to break down the great female mystery, and they were consistently the highest-rated articles in the magazine aside from, well, the pictorials. And we learned a lot ourselves. Here are nine interesting nuggets of wisdom I gleaned from my job presenting women to men.