Asked by hope04 on
If your husband flirts and dances with other girls in front of you what would you do, if that hurt you?
I have been married for 14 years and we don't go out very much. When we go out I come home crying and hurt because he will always ignore me a dance and flirt with a girl. He doesn't dance with a lot of girls he picks one. I can't dance or talk to a guy because he would drag me away. He only does this when we are at my family events. When we are with his family, he acts like the perfect husband I am just tired, I should have walked away the first time it happened, we were not married. The first time he went up to a friend of mine that liked him before we got together and he licked her cheek right in front of me, and attitude has continued. I am fed up should I get a divorce, I just gave birth to a baby but I don't think it is enough to stay?
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Girl, all i can say is gather that strength of yours, read books, join a support group, pray for answers, and read the book WHY DO MEN LOVE BITCHES, OR WHY DO MEN MARRY BITCHES!!! AWESOME BOOK!
Have you talked to him about it, when it's not happening? Have you suggested some couples therapy. I think after 14 years there is something to salvage here, is this the only reason you want to end it or is this just the tip of the iceberg? This event alone while frustrating and inappropriate on his part doesn't necessarily equate divorce.