Asked by CrazyFly on
Scary anal sex!
Why are some women so afraid of anal sex to the point they totally paranoid about ? Are most women like that ? Is there really nothing to enjoy for them?
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The only way to find out why a woman is afraid is to ask her. A few possible reasons:
she had a bad experience in the past and it hurt
she has tried it enough to know that she just doesn't like it
she doesn't know you very well and isn't sure she can trust you not to get carried away and hurt her or she isn't sure you know what you're doing
you are so into it that it is making her want it less
she is afraid you're using her to get it
you surprised her and did it without asking and now she's even more nervous
she does know you and she had a bad experience with you in the past (sorry, but that is one possibility)
The solution: Talk to her. Talk about her fears. Talk about what you would do for her. Reassure her that it's okay if she doesn't do it. Go slow and do related things.
okay, first of all you sound like a jerk, by the way u asked the question. anyway, my guy loves anal....N i mean loves it, we tried it. i liked it too. but he loved it so much he wanted to do it all the time, to the point that i hated it. Plus, the shit fucking hurts alot. yea yea it feels gud eventually, but still. its like idk, guys try to rush sex. think bout it let a chick stick sumthing up ur ass in a rush. n tell me how it feels....
OK Jaguarjim - what is that "type" of person. You are implying here that a woman that does like anal sex is "that type of person." What - a whore? This type of attitude is exactly why "some women" are intimidated by their sexuality. Some men are so intimidated by their own sexuality (or size) that they bash women who enjoy sex. What you have to realize is that sex is a gift from GOD. You can enjoy sex whether you are rich or poor, young or old. It is a biological and physiological response within our body and how you reach orgasm is unique to every person. My philosophy on sex is anything goes between two consenting adults. What each person enjoys is unique to their sexuality.
I happen to LOVE anal sex as it is very enjoyable though my husband is much too large therefore we rely more on toys. Why some women are afraid is probably the same reason they would be afraid of using toys or experimenting with something new. You have to really trust the other person and be comfortable and familiar with each other's body. It can be painful at first, but an experienced lover can work their way around that!
Most women are conditioned to think its mainly for the guy and will hurt like hell, but its really not. Women have just as many nerve endings there as other fun spots. If you do it right it can be wonderful, but if you do it wrong, ouch.
I don't think its about being a type of woman, its about being open to trying new things.
No, not all women are like that. If you're in a relationship with someone you love and feel safe with, you naturally want to explore each other. HOWEVER, some women are just not gonna budge on this issue. The man CAN make it much more comfortable and it can be enjoyable for both if done right. Good luck?
Why would you write a question like this some woman are just not that type of person i wouldent be surprised that you will get replies telling you to where to go