Is your girlfriend or wife constantly telling you the same thing over and over again ("Take out the trash!" "Go to the doctor!" "Don't sit like that!"). Do you want it to stop without it negatively affecting your relationship?
In this video, Dating Coach, Healer and YourTango Expert, Louann Schwager Tung explains the difference between living in fantasy (i.e. what you wish someone would do) and living in reality (i.e. what they actually do). Instead of getting angry that these two worlds don't match up, try Louann's technique to see if you can't meet half-way.
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