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riversong Single hope for new love
Can Relate - Posted September 18, 2009

Hurray for erotica.I'm very shy when it comes to bedroom adventures but I had come to realize that writing my feelings / desires is a great way to let him know what I cannot verbalize not even during intimacy. I don't have a man now but I tried my writings with an ex and he wants us back ( no way ) I started with a poem years ago that I sent to a guy far from here his answer was red hot I keep writing for the day when I get to need them... if or make a little book to sell. Erotica is the pink side of porn , for all of us women to use without sounding or looking cheap and men loves it. Try your hand at writing .

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Lyz Married Community Manager
Posted September 14, 2009

This is definitely effective! Love the tips.

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BookMama Married Happily Married
Posted September 13, 2009

I love romance novels! They are a great way to get in the mood. Don't be ashamed, enjoy what you enjoy.

A few lusty books for your reading pleasure:
http://www.yourtango.com/200915301/just-fun-lusty-books-wome

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LyndaW Married Blunt Open Honest Married24yrs
Posted September 13, 2009

iOhhhh Yea GO! Qverb! Yummmm! My BF has a guy that writess OMG stories for her. She is the envy of the girl pool.
What an awesome article. Absolutely agree about our brain being leader of the sensuous 'pack'. Erotica is great for learning new things, positions, and kinks you didn't know turned you on. When your guy says "Tell me what you want." Erotica is a great way to find out what turns you on so you can tell him. "Honey I want to try this." My hubby loves it when I read bed time stories to him!!
Can't afford the full price books? Call around at your half price book stores, Amazon is a good source, but my favorite (especially if you want to get your pen wet and write your own and get feed back) www.literotica.com. The categorizes and variety has something for everyone. My hubby wanted me to 'talk dirty' to him and I royal stink at this....so found a book and now I can do CPR the ol' mojo when needed. Erotica is a great outlet, learning tool, and feeds the imagination. Don't know about stinky cheese licking off the boots - Watch: Confessions of an Erotica Writer but it is an adrenaline rush to do some activity and have your hubby of 23 years say "OMG where did you learn to do ~that~?" Oh just something I read. Better yet, your panting, out of breath. Your Hubby just gave you the ultimate body from head to toe orgasm that made you make the neighbors dog howl. "Your a sex God. Where did you learn that?" and he devilishly grins "Oh just something I read."

Just My 2cnts
Bright Blessings,
LyndaW

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Qverb Taken Rugburns, sarcasm, giggling, beautiful
Posted September 11, 2009

I'd say to take it a step farther and write some erotic fiction for your honney bunny.

Guys, nothing gets a woman so hot as discovering a sordid little tale about a playful romp between you and her when she next reaches into her purse at the office to root around for change to get a soda. It will set up all sorts of deliciously wicked thoughts for her to be tormented by throughout the day, and it really keeps the 'ole noggin at its sexually sensual peak!

Ladies, give it a shot too! I know I love it when I get little messages about what she has in store for me!

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