Are You People Pleasing Your Way Out Of An Orgasm?
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Are You People Pleasing Your Way Out Of An Orgasm?

The age old habit of people pleasing is not dead.  Women are still trained to play nice, or run the risk of being rejected, in and out of the bedroom. Is your favorite positon people pleasing style?  If any of these scenarios ring true, you might just need a polite power adjustment. You feel guilty because your orgasm is taking too long. Playing nice rarely has rewards, in real life. If you don’t show you matter, how will your lover respect your needs or get good at making you come?

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Being nice can lead to a happier you AND a better relationship!
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Why It's Important To Be Nice

Someone famous once said, "It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice." That's easy to remember when life is good, but it's more important to remember when you're faced with a challenge, especially when that challenge is in your romantic relationship, when the tendency is to shut down or go on the attack. I've tried both of those tactics and I wouldn't recommend them if the relationship is important to you.

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Even a good man has a hard time dating. Even John Goodman.
Love Buzz

What Guys Think Links: Where Are All The Nice Single Guys?

There are some good men out there. Believe that, shawty. More man-myths SHATTERED. One-night stands can very easily result in relationships. How to figure out a guy's relationship intentions. Why do men disappear? Why do dudes like girl-on-girl sexy action so much? When can you date a friend's ex with impunity? Things you can do this 11/11/11 (on a date). A man loves food, sometimes more than sex.

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Love Buzz

The Bedroom: Playing Nice Isn't Always Best

Mike was smart, interesting and nice ... too nice when we slept together for the first time. There had been no throwdown, no frantic disrobing, no moaning loud enough to wake the neighbors, no playfulness. Instead, there was soft music playing in the background, gentle kisses on my eyelids, careful caressing, uncomfortable, unwavering eye contact, and ... Oh, God, is he making love to me?

6 Quick Pick-Me-Ups For A Glum Guy
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6 Quick Pick-Me-Ups For A Glum Guy

We have a fantastic list of 101 really easy things you can do to improve your relationship, please have a look at it and do those things. You will be between very happy with the results. But sometimes your dude may need a pick me up rather than a bit of relationships maintenance*. Here are six quick (non-sexual**) things you can do for your dude if he's feeling a little blue.

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Santa’s Top 10 Celeb Gift List

Some of our favorite celebs were either naughty or nice this year and Santa wants to weigh in on what they should get. So, Madonna, Guy Ritchie, Paris Hilton, Heidi and Spencer, Lindsay Lohan, Raffaello Follieri, Chris Brown, Pete Wentz, Sean Avery and Beyonce should know what they have in store.

Nice Girls Finish Last; Be Naughty This Holiday
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Nice Girls Finish Last; Be Naughty This Holiday

Back when you were a kid your mom probably told you "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all," and that Santa was checking his list twice to find out "who's naughty and nice." Now that we're older we know good from bad, but we also know we'd rather tell the truth than hide it. Ole St. Nick never had to deal with an oversexed coworker up on his Mrs. every time he turned his back during the annual Christmas party, so we think it's time to redefine the rules. Read on to fine out when "naughty" is actually "nice" this holiday season.