Try this six-step approach to get your boyfriend back pronto.
If you're a woman who has tried to get your ex back, you've most likely taken the "desperate times call for desperate measures" approach, causing you to do all kinds of unfortunate things, including the walk of shame and the drunk dial. These unflattering behaviors render you his doormat, and ultimately push him away.
Too needy? Learn the solutions to six mistakes women make in love and improve your love life.
My husband, Rory, and I recently had a conversation about common mistakes women tend to make when it comes to love. He has seen women he’s dated and been in relationships with, and his female friends making these six mistakes. Rory is very insightful and I feel compelled to share them with you since I’ve made many of these mistakes. If you can relate to any of these, try these solutions and watch your love life improve.
Mistake #1: Being needy.
Have you made your partner your dependable source of love — your Higher Power? This is a problem!
Seth and Cindy consulted with me because they had been married only a year and were having problems. Seth was often angry at Cindy, and Cindy felt shut down to Seth.
"Seth," I asked him, "What are you wanting from Cindy that you are not getting?"
I need advice on two different parts of this: the overall codependency issue and one specific guy.
When I'm not in a relationship with anyone, I feel OK. I spend more time with my friends, I go out, I keep active, but I do generally enjoy being in a relationship more than not being in one. This doesn't mean I actively look for relationships, but when I do have one it kind of takes over me.
Is your boyfriend too insecure? You just might be in an unhealthy relationship.
Insecurity. We've all experienced it. Whether it flares up when you're standing next to a gorgeous woman or because your current flame is in contact with his old flame, we've all been insecure. And, while most of us wouldn't care to admit it, many of us have been needy too.
Find out the difference between having needs and being needy!
Society has sent women the message that having needs makes us "too much" for men. We have been told that wanting more time with a man or needing his affection makes us clingy and neurotic. This isn't true. Just because we crave a human connection doesn't mean that we are going to drown a man in all of our needs.
Get more love, attention and connection in your love relationship or marriage.
If you walked into the room completely naked, your partner STILL wouldn't pay attention to you!
This is how it feels for many people.
It can seem like everything and everyone else are far more interesting and important to your partner than you are.
the game on tv
texts from friends