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Three Ways to Make Everyday Feel Like a Good Romance Novel

Three Ways to Make Everyday Feel Like a Good Romance Novel

Ordinary to Extraordinary

As a positive psychologist I wish I could say that for most of us everyday feels great.  Unfortunately that is not the case.  Most of us go through an ordinary day almost by rote.  We get up the same time, we eat the same breakfast or no breakfast, rush to work, and then proceed to get through another day.  Once in a blue moon the day is lush, full of fun and excitement.  Perhaps that is the day special friends visit, or the first day of our vacation, or the day we get wonderful medical news and the world just seems to expand and open up for us again.

Kinky: How To Be Dominant In The Bedroom

Kinky: How To Be Dominant In The Bedroom

Use These Naughty, Hot & Steamy Tips To Learn How To Be More Dominant In The Bedroom!

Learning how to be dominant in the bedroom is something that I think everyone should learn. While it's not one of the usual techniques that I teach in the Bad Girl's Bible, it can help to expand your horizons in the bedroom and help to give you more ideas as to what's possible with your man. (P.S. These are just a small section of the hot & kinky tips that you will find in the Bad Girl's Bible site).

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Greetings from our naughty getaway!

8 Sexy Steps To A Naughty Holiday Getaway

... because being "nice" is awfully overrated.

As adults, we know that the naughtier we are, the more gifts we receive! So, why not be extra naughty this holiday season with someone you enjoy being naughty with?

Divorce and Holidays: Naughty, Nice and Everything In Between

Divorce and Holidays: Naughty, Nice and Everything In Between

Those early days, months and years after divorce are full of the seductive charm of Naughty.

So, what is it?  Have you been Naughty or Nice this year? The journey of divorce will undoubtedly bring out our Naughty, Nice and everything in between sides. As I reflect back on my year, although I am Jewish and Santa doesn’t exist in my world, I am careful to be honest about whether or not I have been naughty…or nice. The first year or two after divorce, the pull towards Naughty was really strong.

10 Places To Have Sex In Other Than The Bedroom [EXPERT]
Was your shower steaming?

10 Places To Have Sex In Other Than The Bedroom

It's time to get out of bed and try some new places!

Open any women's magazine and you'll find a list of fun places to have sex with your man. From the movie theater to the airplane, the suggestions often veer towards the wild side. The truth is, you could have sex just about anywhere; it all depends on how bold you are. But where's the list for the average woman, who isn't willing to risk a jail sentence or public embarrassment to put some adventure into her sex life? Well, here are my suggestions for the top 10 places for the everyday woman to get adventurous.

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Without the bad dye job, bad tan, or penciled-in eyebrows... she looks like a lot of us.

Weird News: Find Your Porn Star Doppelganger!

They say 7 other people in the world look exactly like you. Is a porn star one of your look-a-likes?

There are plenty of facial recognition sites out there that tell you what celebrity you look like, who your long-lost family members may be, and even what Facebook pictures are yours before you tag them. Quit being so boring!

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A sexy little bra is a must!

10 Pieces Every Woman Must Have In Her Lingerie Drawer

Sexy negligee suggestions from Laura Mehlinger, lingerie designer and founder of Lola Haze.

This Memorial Day weekend, while everyone else is coming home from the beach or a barbeque all sandy, sunburnt and tired, you'll be rushing home to be alone with your guy. Little does he know, the festivities are just getting started, and they begin with what you have on underneath that flirty summer dress!

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Sometimes, nice wins over naughty.

18 Things NOT To Buy Your Boyfriend For Christmas

Christmas-themed sex toys? I mean, really?!

Wow. I mean, wow. I'm not some kind of religious conservative nutjob, but last time I checked, Christmas was a peaceful holiday that's meant to be celebrated with your family. So when I saw this photo gallery of "18 WTF Christmas-Themed Sex Toys" on The Frisky, I rightly thought... WTF.

Americans Love To Talk Dirty

Americans Love To Talk Dirty

80 percent of us indulge in word play during sex.

When it comes to getting frisky between the sheets, do you spice up the action by letting some naughty words slip out? If not, you may want to join the legions of Americans who are using dirty talk to mix things up in the bedroom.

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Weiner, Favre: Women Don't Want Your Naughty Photos!

Brett Favre, Anthony Weiner: women say receiving unexpected nude photos from men is "creepy."

Politicians are no strangers to scandal, but thanks to the popularity of social networking and sexting, we've got a whole new branch of governmental wrongdoing to deal with. Our prime suspect: Congressman Anthony Weiner.

Glee' Cast Strips for Naughty 'GQ' Photo Shoot

Glee' Cast Strips for Naughty 'GQ' Photo Shoot

In November issue of GQ, two Glee stars abandon their squeaky-clean image ,Lea Michele and Dianna Agron posed in various stages of undress for a sexy photo shoot with Cory Monteith. It's a racy move that some fans -- including this writer -- are deeming entirely inappropriate not to mention disappointing if only because ..