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Is It OK To Date Your Ex's Friend?

Can dating your ex's friend cause complications?

Have you ever made a play for the friend of an ex? I don't advise it. Too bad I didn't take my own advice...

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Some Men Have More Love To Give

Picking a love interest can be a tough decision.

One girl wants to know: Can a guy like two girls at once? Or do his flirtations mean nothing?

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Mood Music: Suggestions From A Master

The ultimate playlist for when you're getting some play.

There is any number of horrifying things on my laptop one could discover, not the least of which is a playlist on my iTunes called "Chill Out." But here's my confession: It's not actually for chilling out. It's for making out. While trying not to humiliate myself further, I thought I would share some of the music I consider appropriate for an intimate night in. Music taste is highly personal, and I don't expect these will work for everyone, but you might find something here that gets your blood running just the right way.

Why You Should Enjoy Being Single

Why You Should Enjoy Being Single

Take advantage of your single status and revel in these benefits.

Being single means doing many things on your own and having more alone time. Some people are less comfortable with this than others. They see it as a punishment. I don't. As a half-introvert who spent much of her teens writing poetry and daydreaming, I will attempt to make the solitude thing palatable for the singletons who don't care to look inward/play solitaire/shop alone. Here's what's awesome about stagging it through life.

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Can There Be Love Without Chemistry?

Sorry, Don Juan. As suave as you are, you'll get nowhere without animal attraction.

Sorry, Don Juan. No matter how suave you are, you won't get the girl if there's no animal attraction. Because when it comes down to it, it's all about the chemistry.

Don't Get Lost In His Eyes: The Mouth Says It All

Don't Get Lost In His Eyes: The Mouth Says It All

The eyes may be the window to the soul, but your man is vibing you in other ways as well.

People often say that the eyes are the windows to the soul...the best way to tell how a person REALLY feels. But the mouth can be just as important a signifier when it comes to true feelings, and its messages are much harder to mask...

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Does He Have Boyfriend Potential?

Does he have issues? How (and when) you'll find out.

Wondering if a guy has long term potential? Chances are he's sending you blatant signals as to whether his "light is on" or not.

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Why Men Disappear

What's really going on when a guy takes off?

What's up with men who stop calling without an explanation? Find out what's really going on when a guy takes off.