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My Boyfriend Cheated On Me With Hookers

My Boyfriend Cheated On Me With Hookers

One woman grapples with finding out she was betrayed when he paid for sex.

I kept going, and my stomach dropped as I realized that "massage" was simply Internet parlance for sex. All the time we’d been together, when he’d refused to use condoms—until I finally went on the Pill—he'd been hiring, or trying to hire, hookers. I could tell at least one of his attempts had been successful; a woman emailed back to say that he'd left a piece of jewelry behind with her. Another response, from an escort site which I promptly visited, made the imagery all too real.