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PEPPER SCHWARTZ, PH.D.'S BLOG

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5 Things I Wish I Knew About Sex At 30

Sex tips from a seasoned lover who wishes she'd learned certain lessons sooner.

Pepper Schwartz, a seasoned lover, psychologist and author, writes about the things she wish she knew about sex at 30. How much do body image, fantasy, oral sex and sex toys factor into a healthy sex life? Read on to find out. Plus, the revealing connection between foreplay, orgasms and faking it.

The Joy Of The Quickie

The Joy Of The Quickie

The benefits of a fast one.

Fast doesn't always mean bad; counsels expert Dr. Pepper Schwartz. While wonderful; sometimes tender lovemaking can be touched with a little ennui. Quickies can be the perfect(ly intimate) solution to showing just how desirable your partner is to you.