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How to Be More Attractive to Men (Without Changing)
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How to Be More Attractive to Men (Without Changing)

Frankly, it drives me crazy to see how many women out there are looking for tips, tricks and scientific methods to be more attractive to men. Most of these “attracting men” tips are ridiculously stupid, sexist and down right demeaning to all women. Just type “how to be more attractive to men” in Google and these are the “helpful tips” you will find: “Take excellent care of your hair” “Make sure your skin is soft, smooth, and free of blemishes”. (Don’t have perfect skin? No one will talk to you!) “Put on a red dress”

Your Boyfriend Wants Space - Is He Breaking Up With You?
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Your Boyfriend Wants Space - Is He Breaking Up With You?

It’s one of the most hurtful 3 words a woman in love can hear. Until a second ago everything was fine. You spent every minute together. You shared a life. He told you that he loves you and wants only you. And suddenly the “I want space” bomb drops on your head. What does it mean when your boyfriend wants space? What went wrong? Is it something you did or something you said? Does he REALLY just wants some time alone or is he trying to break up with you? The Excuses Guys seem to get very creative when they make up excuses for “needing space”. Here are some of the most common excuses:

How to Make Your Boyfriend HAPPY
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How to Make Your Boyfriend HAPPY

When a woman is in love, she will do anything and everything to make her guy happy. If he is sad or upset, she will look for ways to cheer him up. If he seems bored and a bit uninterested, she will turn the world upside down to keep him interested. But Wait…Do You Know WHY He is Unhappy? The first step in making your guy happy again is obviously finding out WHY he is unhappy. Does he say you don’t love him “enough”? Does he feel insecure in your relationship? Is he jealous about your relationships with other guys? Does he want more sex?

20 Signs He Thinks about Marrying You
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20 Signs He Thinks about Marrying You

When my boyfriend popped the question, I was completely shocked. I thought that I really know how men think (and especially how HE thinks) and that he could never really surprise me, but I was wrong. I had no idea he wants to marry me. I didn’t see the signs (though I really was looking for them…) I guess you would like to know if the man of your dreams wants to marry you. God knows you want to marry him. But how to know if he is planning to share the rest of his life with you?

Will an Ultimatum Make Him Decide to Marry You?
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Will an Ultimatum Make Him Decide to Marry You?

At some point the waiting becomes unbearable. You are in love, you’ve found that one you want to spend the rest of your life with, but he shows no sign of an impending proposal. You’ve dropped every hint possible, left bridal magazines open in the bathroom, told your mutual friends you really want that ring, but it’s still not happening. It hurts everyday. Are you not good enough to get a marriage proposal? Is he just waiting for someone better to come along? Is he a commitment phobic? How to get a man to marry you? Desperation Leads to This Common (and fatal) Mistake

Six Insights I Wish I Had Before Men Came into My Life
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Six Insights I Wish I Had Before Men Came into My Life

Trying to figure out what makes men tick and how to understand men can literally give me a huge migraine. They claim to simple creatures, but unlike us women, they don’t tend to share what’s in their head (even with their male friends). Why didn’t he call me? What does he really want in a relationship? Why does he say “nothing” when I ask him what’s on his mind? Why does he avoid fighting with me? Why isn’t he sensitive to my needs? Why does he stare at other women? Why does he take so much reading material to the bathroom? The questions are endless.

How to Make Your Boyfriend Love You (much) MORE
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How to Make Your Boyfriend Love You (much) MORE

Have you ever wondered why some men treat their women like a princess even if they’re way past the dating phase? Maybe you have a friend that has this “perfect man”. After many years he still buys her flowers, remembers every special date and gives her his admiring and full attention when ever you see them together. You ask yourself why MY boyfriend can’t treat me like this. Why can’t he love me in this passionate, devoted and admiring way? Do I not DESERVE to be treated like a princess? How to make your boyfriend love you MORE?

My Boyfriend is Distant – How Can I Melt His Frozen Heart?
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My Boyfriend is Distant – How Can I Melt His Frozen Heart?

I know it may be a hard for you to face the truth right now, but chances are that if the boyfriend is distant, the boyfriend may be planning to bail. Please don’t lie to yourself – That never helps. If he is cold, distant and uninterested for more than a couple of days, he’s not “just going through a phase”, or “suffering from hormonal imbalance.” And he won’t “just get over it with time”. Timing is crucial and you can’t just ignore this situation if you want your relationship to survive. WHY is Your Boyfriend Distant?

How Can I Get Him to Commit – Without Being Pushy or Manipulative
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How Can I Get Him to Commit – Without Being Pushy or Manipulative

You are head over heals in love with this guy. You have so much fun together; he is there for you when you need him. Maybe he even told you that he loves you, or really likes you, all the signs of a committed relationship are there – But he still won’t make it official. This situation, you will probably agree with me, it both confusing and painful. If he cares for you, has so much fun with you, why won’t he commit? You invest everything in him – Your time, your support and your love, yet you always feel he is somewhat out of reach.

How to Get Your Crush Fall in love With You
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How to Get Your Crush Fall in love With You

You are completely in love with this guy, but what about him? It seems that he likes you, but something is holding him back. What could be missing? Is there something you are doing wrong? How to make this guy fall in love with you? Men’s emotions are more easily blocked by their head. A man can really like you and be just a step from completely falling in love with you, but NOT ALLOW himself to fall in love. Men have certain innate needs that must be met before they truly feel connected to you. What’s Wrong With a Little Manipulation?