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DEAN CHANDLER'S BLOG

New Relationship Rules: Texting & IMing

New Relationship Rules: Texting & IMing

A guide to good communication etiquette. How often to text, call and IM.

Communication is essential in every relationship; but when is the right time to express yourself and what is the best method? Dean Chandler gives men and women a quick tutorial on how and when to reach out via phone; text and instant messaging. Keep in mind that sometimes less is more.

Do You Make More Money Than Him?

Do You Make More Money Than Him?

Living with a woman breadwinner. Dean Chandler says buck up and do it!

Dean Chandler gives advice to males on accepting a partner who outearns them.

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The Ultimate Bedroom Playlist

Mood music isn't always love songs. Check your iTunes for these romantic songs.

The playlist may be the ultimate deal starter, closer, and whatever comes in between. But, how do you pick the song that gets the ladies and fellas on the dance floor? It's trickier than you think. Paying close attention the needs of both men and women, Dean Chandler has hand picked selections for the best mood music iTunes can find.

Plan the Perfect Road Trip for Two

Plan the Perfect Road Trip for Two

Planning a romantic road trip? Here are some worthwhile essentials.

Every journey begins with a first step. But before that first step; you need to get supplies. Tango gives its top nine needs for road trip bliss.

Are You Too Competitive With Your Guy?

Are You Too Competitive With Your Guy?

Competition in a couple isn't always the best idea.

When it comes to that all star team of two, a sport is not a game. In Dean Chandler’s not-so-humble opinion, there’s nothing dumber and more dangerous than playing sports with your significant other. Teamwork is what makes the ideal relationship work, so why disrupt that with a competitive edge? Watching sports together can be a great opportunity for bonding with each other, but as for playing sports? Just don’t do it!

The Moving-In-Together Survival Guide

The Moving-In-Together Survival Guide

Joining spaces can challenge a relationship. Tips on how to transition.

She moved in, now what? Dean Chandler shares his view on the trials and tribulations of moving in with a partner. Moving in together means different things for men and women, but it undeniably brings the relationship to a new level. From the idea of cohabitation (living in sin, to some) to figuring out whose stuff to keep, it's high on stress. Here, the author describes how essential compromise is and talks about recognizing a new and developing intimacy.