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The Dowager Countess has a thing or three to say about your love life.

Love Bytes: S**t Girlfriends Say & Downton Abbey Love Lessons

Plus, why do guys fall asleep during sex?

What Downton Abbey can teach us about love. Sh*t Girlfriends Say. Falling asleep during conjugal relations. Would you let your boyfriend adopt you? How to stand by your man effectively (and with dignity). Why would your boyfriend ask about exes during sex? What can iconic romances teach us? What do American singles like least? Can you do Valentine's Day on the couch, by yourself and still be happy?

Valentine's Day Gifts grill
They say food is the way to a man's heart. What's better than a grill to cook that food?

10 Awesome Valentine's Day Gifts For Him [PHOTOS]

Give him the elements of love this Valentine's Day!

Guys don't want Valentine's Day gifts, right? Wrong. Presents are always nice. For budgets big, small and in-between we've got tons of fun stuff your dude could want this Valentine's Day.

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Some types of gossip are good for your relationship.

Love Bytes: How Gossip Can Be Good For Your Relationship

Plus, 25 Valentine's Day movies for 25 relationship stages.

Rules for stay-over relationships. Should you stop self-pleasuring when you move in? Stop blaming yourself for his cheating. Do you know how to get him to call you back? Some gossip is good for relationships. 25 Valentine's Day movies for 25 relationship stages. What is a recycled bride? 10 signs he is into you. How much does money matter?

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Will your parents' divorce affect your own happiness in marriage?

Love Bytes: Are You Destined For Marriage Failure?

Plus, how to have a quickie without getting caught!

Everybody manscape now. What was your first time like? What is the first year of marriage "really" like? The importance of sexual chemistry. The truth about being a bridesmaid. How to have a quickie and not get caught. When is chivalry a little too much? The porn industry is mandating condom use. Great, non-hormonal birth control methods. Does your parents' failure at marriage doom you? Never date a guy named "Tom."

interracial couple
Have you ever dated someone of a different race?

Love Bytes: What Would MLK Say About Interracial Dating?

Also, love lessons from the Golden Globes.

What do guys think about interracial dating? Love lessons from the Golden Globes. Single moms like sex too. What to expect when going on your first date at age 23. How to turn confidence into sexiness. Is he really sensitive or just trying to pick you up? He still won't propose after five years. Do you buy anything in bulk after getting dumped? Ladies, have you ever paid on the first date?

Friday The 13th
It's Friday the 13th.

13 "What Guys Think Links" For Friday The 13th

How important is a first kiss? Do men settle? And more, straight from the minds of men.

The perfect first kiss, made easy. He wants her to think it's just a booty call situation, but he has real feelings. How do you know if your guy is settling for you? Will a guy ALWAYS ask out a chick he digs? Do guys like to watch porn solo or with a partner? A product that will make Skype sex WAY more interesting. The practicality of long-distance relationships. Do NOT see Blue Valentine on date night. What to think about the final resting place of male reproductive fluid. Jay-Z is not a role model for your love life.

she's weird
There's a guy who's probably into this look.

What Guys Think Links: He Loves Your Flaws

Plus, what ALL the straight people are doing.

And a happy new year to you, sirs and madams. I hope you haven't dropped your resolutions into a vat of acid and cried yourself to sleep over lost dreams. Because it would be a little awkward if we both did that. Here is what the "other guys" have had to say about loving, dating, doing it and all that stuff.

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If you love someone, there is no excuse for cheating. Right?

What Guys Think Links: Can You Love Someone If You Cheat On Them?

And, how to get him to stop watching porn. Good luck with that.

If you love someone, there is no excuse for cheating on them... Right? What sex is really like after having a baby. How to get him to quit porn. Don't focus on your guy's shortcomings. What he really thinks after a first date. What happens when sex makes her say things she doesn't mean? If your guy is a tad immature, cut him some slack. Guess what, being a little juvenile, here and there, is a great trait in a man. Harrumph.

marriage proposal
He might be ready for marriage if... he says he is. Men are annoying like that.

Love Bytes: 10 Signs Your Man Is Ready For Marriage

Plus, what if your guy is always coming to his ex's rescue? And, is it lust or love?

10 signs your guy is (finally) ready for marriage. The many things it means when your dude says, "dude." The perfect date, featuring Aziz Ansari. A preview of the intense new film 'Shame,' about sex addiction. Is it lust or love? What happens when your guy is always trying to rescue his ex?

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Cosmo has some tips on what to do if you want to walk down the aisle. But do we agree?

What Guys Think Links: 10 Steps To Becoming "Wife Material"

Plus, what if your guy hates your friends?

When he loathes your friends. When a lady gets caught in the friend zone. What do guys look for in a wife? He talks about his guilty pleasures. Going to your ex-wife's wedding AND loving it. Some of the web's worst sex advice. And why the orgasm should be a result not a goal, per se.