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The 5 Worst Ways To Reignite Attraction In A Relationship

The 5 Worst Ways To Reignite Attraction In A Relationship

Want to rekindle attraction in your relationship? Don't do these five things.

It's no big secret that the hot and heavy lust of a new relationship almost always fades to a cooler, slower version of itself as our couplehood progresses. But before you worry that all long-term relationships mean chaste, sexless companionship, a new YourTango survey, conducted with MSN's Glo.com and Chemistry.com, leads us to believe otherwise. In a survey about the nature of attraction, 90 percent of our more than 20,000 respondents said that it is possible to reignite attraction in a relationship. Of course, there are some great ways to do this and some not-so-great ways to bring the spark back. According to the survey respondents, here are the five worst ways to reignite attraction in a relationship:

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Last Chance! Vote For YourTango Internet Week Panels

Cast your vote for YourTango's Internet Week panels today.

Get ready to vote. Internet Week, New York's annual collection of panels and events dedicated to the world wide web, is happening June 6 - 13, 2011. YourTango was invited to submit three panel ideas, and now we need your support. Panels are chosen based on user votes, so please cast yours now! Voting closes today.

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YourTango Is Hiring A Fashion And Beauty Blogger

Are you an established blogger who's hooked into beauty and fashion? Come blog for YourTango.

YourTango is looking to hire an experienced fashion and beauty blogger to contribute one fashion/beauty post a week to Love Buzz, YourTango's signature news and trends blog. Posts run around 250 words and incorporate studies, news, products and trends related to fashion, beauty and body image, as they intersect with relationships. Please check out our fabulous outgoing fashion/beauty blogger's archive to get a better sense of our content.

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Poll: What's The State Of Your Union?

As President Obama gives the State of the Union address, we wonder: what's the state of your union?

Poll: What's The State Of Your Union?: A. My union gets an "A" for effort and execution. B. My union is pretty good. C. My union is just so-so. D. There's very little cooperation happening between the aisles of my union. F. My union could use a major bailout.

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Love Bytes: Spanish Flirt Most and 10-Yr-Old Mom

Can't miss love and relationship news.

Love and relationship news to stay in-the-know today. Spanish women were found to be most flirtatious online, according a dating site's recent poll. American women? We ranked second to last. So you're saying winking emoticons don't do the trick? [Huffington Post] And in other Spain-related news... the mother of the 10-year-old Romanian girl who gave birth shortly after moving to Spain is delighted, naturally. [AOL Health] Tennis star Maria Sharpova's ring is worth as much as a single-family home in, well, almost anywhere. [ThirdAge]

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Sex Survey: 78% Of Marrieds Want Better Sex

Our YourTango sex survey shows most couples have sex once a week but think it could be better.

We asked and you answered: More than 800 people took YourTango's recent sex survey, giving us loads of fascinating information about who's having sex, how often they're having it, and how satisfying it is when it happens. It turns out most couples are having sex at least once a week, but they aren't completely satisfied when it happens.

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The Number One Thing We Get Wrong About Men

What do men want in a relationship? Women get this answer wrong all the time.

As women, we can spin ourselves into tizzies trying to embody what we think men want. There are entire segments of the media (ahem) dedicated to the topic. But guess what? The answer isn't so complicated as we often think. It's no surprise that men like beautiful, smart women. You say she's into sports? Even better. Men love looking at these women, talking to them, dating them. But—in terms of long-term love—it's not enough to be a bombshell, to be hilarious, to be a female version of a man.

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6 Tips For A More Compassionate Relationship

How to practice compassion, a key element to the health and happiness of your relationship.

In relationships, compassion can often take a back seat. Life is busy. We stop making the effort to be in his shoes or to see his point of view when it's one we disagree with, or worse, one we believe is intended to or is actually hurting us.

Love Bytes: Jesse James, IUD & Ayn Rand Edition

Love Bytes: Jesse James, IUD & Ayn Rand Edition

10 must-click love, sex, dating and relationship links. This week? Jesse James, IUDs and Ayn Rand.

10 must-click love, sex, dating and relationship links. Are "favorite children" more prone to infidelity later in life? [Huffington Post Living] The couple who crashed the White House to join Bravo's Real Housewives of DC. [PopEater] Must-read online dating stats: One in three women who meet men online have sex on the first date. [Huffington Post Tech] How to travel as a couple without killing each other. Because violence on vacation is no fun. [The Frisky