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LyndaW's Blog

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Reading:Psychology Today August 2009Article: "Love's Destroyer" by Hara Estroff Marano-------Yes! OMG!!!!! I finally found experts in a reputable publishing, who define jealousy for the irrationality it is! (please remember I ~very~ rarely get jealous) All my life I have had my "better world" philosophy and jealousy is illogical to me. To me jealousy is nothing more than self degridation or low self esteem, mistrust, ownership, and..."'The formula for Jealousy,' says psychologist Steven Stosny, 'is an insecure person times an insecure relationship.' But it's insecure people who tend to destabilize relationships and make them insecure. And a person who is very … Read More

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Believe it or not you and your BF friends. You don't mention if you want two guys or two girls....if you want 2 girls then there is a warning of the whole drama issue unless your guy is just not her type, then it is all just fun; if it is for 2 guys then usually we find that the guys are like "Ohhhh yeah!" and very little drama. I like friends, and the discussion just comes up-guys to guy or girls to girl.If that is not your cup of tea then....Adultfriendfinder.comTagged.com (I like tagged so do my other swinger … Read More

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mo·nog·a·my
n.
1. The practice or condition of having a single sexual partner during a period of time.
2.
a. The practice or condition of being married to only one person at a time.
b. The practice of marrying only once in a lifetime.

With this said, I have been married for more than 23 years. I adore my husband and love him with everything I have. It never occurred to me that these two definitions were synonymous with one another, I don't hear an ~and~ between 1 and 2 it is an ~or~. We are married, so that is definition number … Read More

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  My Dad died January of '03. He is my hero. He raised 3 daughters mostly as a single dad. He was 40 years old when I was born. (indulge me here this is important.) In my Dad's home we never ever talked about sex. Yet, he bought me my first tampons, and tried to explain period. I was 16, but he knew what to do and took care of the job. I guess my sisters prepared him for me. If you would have asked me, I would have told you my Dad did not enjoy sex. He "got it … Read More

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