to the YourTango newsletter!

Continue to Site »»

STEPHANIE CASTILLO'S BLOG

student writing blackboard smart girl

Are Children Born To Married Couples Smarter?

A new study says that education matters more than marriage in childhood development.

Are children of married couples more cognitively developed? According to a new study by the British Institute for Fiscal Studies, the answer is yes, but it's not because their parents are married.

Betty Draper

If You Want To Get Married, Don't Be A B**ch

"Seen Kim Kardashian angry? I didn't think so. You've seen her smile, wiggle and make a sex tape."

Listen up, ladies: if you want to get married, you need to stop being a shallow bitch and slut. At least that's what Mad Men writer Tracy McMillan has to say in the Huffington Post this week, and though she's not a relationship expert, she does know a thing or two about finding the one (or not finding the one), as she herself has been married three times.

birth control pills

Could Women Soon Have Access To Free Birth Control?

Women may soon receive pills, IUDs and patches without the co-pay, under the Affordable Care Act.

It's hard to imagine the words "free" and "birth control" being in the same sentence, especially to the women who have spent years paying upwards of $30 for their montly pills. Yet, the Institute of Medicine (IOM), which deals exclusively with women's and reproductive issues, has released a new report that suggests birth control could soon be free and accessible for all American women.

Surprise! Women More Likely To Sext Than Men

Surprise! Women More Likely To Sext Than Men

A new study finds women are more likely to send sexy text messages than men are.

Based on news headlines, you'd think men are hands down more likely to sext (that is, for those who don't know, send sexy pictures of themselves via text) than women. But, color us surprised, it seems the opposite is true! The New York Times reported yesterday on a new study that finds women are more likely to send sexy text messages than men.

man asleep at his desk at work

Study: Men Like To Flirt With Coworkers Out Of Boredom

A new study reports that men who flirt in the workplace are bored with their jobs.

You know that really cute guy you work with, who is always smiling at you when you catch his eye? Well, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but he isn't doing it, because he likes you. He's doing it, because he's bored.

5 Things You Need To Know About The Gonorrhea Superbug

5 Things You Need To Know About The Gonorrhea Superbug

Here's what you need to know about the new, untreatable strain of gonorrhea.

The Center of Disease Control and Prevention has long suspected that gonorrhea, a common sexually transmitted disease, was becoming less and less susceptible to treatment. This week, their suspicions were confirmed when a new, untreatable gonorrhea strain was discovered in Japan.

happy couple cuddilng

Study: Men See Cuddling As Key To A Happy Relationship

A new study says men are happier and more satisfied in their relationships when they cuddle.

A new study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior finds that not only do men like to cuddle, but they believe it's an important ingredient to a satisfying relationship.

Is Non-Monogamy The Key To An Affair-Free Marriage?

Is Non-Monogamy The Key To An Affair-Free Marriage?

In the NYT Magazine, Dan Savage suggests non-monogamy as an antidote to infidelity in marriage.

With each new sex scandal splashed across headlines, it's become impossible to hide from the realities of marriage, i.e., monogamy is hard. And with so many high-profile persons seemingly shirking fidelity, it's easier for couples unsatisfied in their relationship to start wondering if these cheating politicians just may have the right idea. It's these concerns and questions that The New York Times Magazine took on when reaching out to leading sex-advice columnist, Dan Savage for their recent exploration of monogamy and marriage.

woman kissing computer online dating

Online Dating Is 50 Years Old: The Humble Beginnings

Match.com, OKCupid and eHarmony were all inspired by the New York-based Project TACT.

Who knew that online dating got its start in the 1960s on New York's Upper East Side? Project TACT, the first-ever computer matchmaking system, was designed by New York accountant Lewis Altfest and his friend Robert Ross. The two were inspired by the Parker Pen Pavilion they came across at New York's World Fair in 1964, where a giant computer selected pen pals for anyone who wanted one. All they had to do was "fill out a questionnaire, feed it into the machine, and almost instantly received a card with the name and address of a like-minded participant in some far-flung locale—your ideal match." Sound familiar?