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11 Things A Good Boyfriend Would Never Ask You To Do

Just in time for 11/11/11.

We've all been in relationships where, at times, we've felt more like a mom or a secretary than a significant other. While we understand that healthy relationships require compromises, we've compiled a list of favors that good boyfriends know better than to consistently request. If you're constantly taking on any of the items on this list (especially with any hint of resentment), it's time to get your guy to lend a hand.

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Complete This Sentence: My First Love...

What do you remember about your first love? Do you still think about him or her?

Almost everyone gets over their first love, but you never really forget that person. Whether it happened during your childhood, your teenage years or even when you were already an adult, you'll always hold a small candle for the person who first taught you vulnerability and desire.

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Men Who Buy Sex Are More Likely To Be Criminals

"Johns" are also eight times more likely to say they would rape a woman if they could.

Paying for sex is widely derided in this country, but does it mean a man is dangerous? According to a controversial Newsweek article, men who buy sex not only harbor violent tendencies, but maintain a dehumanizing attitude toward women.

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College Students Would Rather Give Up Sex Than Carry Textbooks

They'll go celibate for digital textbooks. Kids these days.

College campuses may be notorious for promiscuity, but don't forget that most students are actually there to, uh, study. According to a survey released by software company Kno, Inc., one in four college students would give up sex for a year in exchange for electronic textbooks.

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Women Say Late 20s Are Ideal Age For Starting A Family

Plus, more results from AskMen's Great Female Survey on office love, online dating and more.

Is it okay for men to cry? When do men start losing their looks? Earlier this week, AskMen released the results of their "Great Female Survey," which asked women to answer 64 questions on sex, career, relationships, online behavior and money. We've picked out 20 of the most interesting answers on relationships to share with you. Tell us if you think these findings are true to life.

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Complete This Sentence: I Knew It Was Meant To Be When...

When did things start feeling "right" between you and your partner?

Is there such a thing as "The One?" Regardless of your belief (or lack thereof) in a soul mate, you have to admit that there was a moment when things just felt "right" between you and your partner. If you're happily in love, tell us about what triggered that feeling in you. Was it love at first sight, or did it require a written list of pros and cons? Did it strike you in the middle of the night? Did that feeling develop after you'd weathered a few storms together? Or were you only sure once you'd received counsel from friends and family?

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Survey: 80 Percent Of College Students Sext

A new study found that four out of five college students engage in sexting.

Is sexting still scandalous? The practice certainly precedes the device: People have been writing erotic messages to each other since the beginning of time. But sexting is more problematic than a lusty handwritten letter because sexts are so easy to pass around electronically. As several public figures have learned over the past five years, naked pictures can enter the public domain with just the click of a button.

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Complete This Sentence: The Way To A Woman's Heart...

Tell us about your favorite romantic gestures.

If the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, how does one win over a woman? Despite complaints about the contrary, we're actually not that hard to please, and a small gesture—be it a mid-afternoon "I love you" text or your offer to do the dishes—goes a long way.