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Why I Chose To Be Celibate

For three years, I didn't have sex with anyone. Here's why I chose to be celibate.

Just a few short years ago, I was your basic art school student, following all the latest trends in indie rock, guzzling PBR, shooting movies, but... not having sex. No, I wasn't a late bloomer and I didn't have trouble relating to women my own age. I was celibate.

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The Top 10 Anti-Romance Songs

Valentine's Day got you down? Listen to anti-romance songs as you fantasize about killing Cupid.

Pop music is generally known for glorifying love and romance, although at some of its proudest moments it's actually smashing them to pieces. If you're sick of hearing about the wonders of romance, if you believe that love only leads to pain, if you wish that Congress would enact legislation against Valentine's Day, this is the playlist for you. Here are ten songs celebrating letting go of losers and leaving love to the fairy tales.

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Dating A Foot Fetishist: How To Love The Man Who Loves Your Feet

Tips for telling if you're dating a foot fetishist and how you should handle it.

I guess I'm what you'd call a foot fetishist, although this designation is more complex than you probably think. Most foot fetishists are not perverts, sexual deviants, or anything to be afraid of. Here's what you need to know about being in a relationship with someone like me.