When Is It Okay to Speak Up?
He doesn't call when he says he will, he cancels plans. When is it okay to stand your ground?
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Would You Compromise Who You Are For a Mate?
There's compromising, and then there's settling. Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?
Would You Lie About Your Age To Get a Date?
If age us nothing but a number, why do we feel like we have to hide it?
Kick Your F-Buddy Habit & Find Love
F-Buddies are like pretzels. You can’t stop at just one
Hey, Guys - Sexy or Slutty?
READ THE COMMENTS POSTED IN RESPONSE TO THIS ARTICLE HERE: http://moxieblog.typepad.com/moxieblog/2009/12/wheres-the-line-between-sexy-slutty.html FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER - http://twitter.com/Moxieinthecity Name: jessica | Location: New York , NY |Question: I consider myself an intelligent young woman, I come from a great family which embedded good values in me, at the same time (and I know that one doesn't exclude the other) there is this side to me where I want to do some semi-kinky things when I am alone with my boyfriend. I mean I'm not into anything that requires a trip to a sex shop (at least not for something “advanced”), but I like to go down on him and say have him stand in the middle of the room while I am underneath giving him oral sex and watching his face, or to be generally
Are Fuck Buddies Keeping You Single
READ THE COMMENTS POSTED IN RESPONSE TO THIS COLUMN HERE: http://moxieblog.typepad.com/moxieblog/2009/12/one-step-forward-two-steps-back.html FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER: http://twitter.com/Moxieinthecity I mean, first things first -- would you expect details and truth to come forth in heaps from another fuck buddy? I certainly don't. Dudes that I'm just fucking, I make it very clear, I don't want to know or learn too much about you. Verify that you're single and let's keep it physical. Period.- Jami And how does one verify such a thing? The fact is, you can never verify if a fuck buddy is single. The idea that you think you can brings me to my main point. You think you have all this control in this dynamic...but you don't. You actually have very little. And by "you" I mean "women."
The Delusions of a 40+ Single Man
READ THE COMMENTS POSTED IN RESPONSE TO THIS COLUMN HERE: http://moxieblog.typepad.com/moxieblog/2009/12/the-delusions-of-a-40-single-man.html I agree that few 26 yr olds are thinking about having 4 kids with a 45 yr old. But as a 41 yr old, so far I've had no problem meeting ladies who are between 25 and 30, and who know how many kids i want (it's all disclosed in my online profiles).- New_NYC_Resident Joey Giraud: "And the 41 yr old guy who wants 3-4 kids.. sure you can make em, but can you keep up with em? ( eye roll ) Get real, studley". ((double eye roll)) I run marathons and run 3 businesses... the question will be, can they keep up with me? LOL! :-) - New_NYC_Resident
Are You An Equal Opportunity Dater?
Read our daily advice column and join the conversation about this column here Name: shary | Location: Washington , DC |Question: I have always being attracted to Caucasian men, considering I? a black female it makes it harder for me to approach them or strike a conversation. My question is which would be the best places for me to hang out to increase my chances of meeting one, and are there any social gatherings for people with this interest in DC.|Age: 25 I don't know of specific organizations that cater to bi-racial dating. I do know certain speeddating events that offer Ethnicity X Female/White Male events. I rarely see any Ethnicity X Male/White Female Events. For some reason, the white male is "the get." When I used to organize speeddating events for another company, I never liked the idea of planning these types of events. I felt it was feeding in to a
F--- Buddies Are Like Pretzels....
...you can't stop at just one.
Beware The Man With an Exit Plan
Name: Elle | | Location: Philly , PA |Question: I have been seeing this guy for over three months. He told me that he is not interested in a serious relationship because of the hours he puts in at work and the fact that he wants to go overseas to do "Doctors without borders". While I think that this is a very noble cause and way of life. This is not what I am interested in in my future. And I told him that. And I also told him that I am interested in marriage in my future and in having kids. He told me that he does not want to lead me on and that I can see other guys so that I can basically meet someone to settle down with. I don't call the guy. I only respond to his texts and phone calls. We have only gone on three dates during these three months. Earlier this week he called me to ask me if I wanted to go to Los Vegas with him for New Year's Eve. All expense paid trip on him. I am confused. Why is this guy treating me to a very expensive trip if he is not interested in