BootyDoctors's Blog
Lila here~ So many times couples focus on the Big O
when they talk or think about their sexual encounters. That’s typical for men, who tend to be goal
oriented. It’s also typical for women
who are disconnected from their feminine essence or who have a lot of masculine
energy in their make up. Not that
there’s anything wrong with having an orgasm of course, but having it as your
sole focus can make you feel like there’s something wrong with you if you can’t
perform.
For women, having an orgasm during sex is
not automatic (except in the fantasy world of pornography). Some women rarely orgasm, but … Read More
Lila here~ It seems like everywhere I turn
lately, someone is talking or writing about men being obsolete or in danger of
extinction. It’s upsetting, and I want
to assure you it’s not true.
Take sex toys, for example. Men will NEVER be replaced by sex toys. Here’s why:
1. Sex toys require batteries, and
batteries run out. I also never seem to
have the correct size batteries when I need them. Men can be fully charged and ready to go just
about any time I might need them.
2. Sex toys aren’t sensitive to my
responses. Men can adjust touch, tempo
and location in response to my reactions.
I love that!
3. … Read More
Lila here~ One question we get often here at the Booty Doctors is, “Why do women say they want a nice guy, but then dump me for a bad boy?” I came up with a list of things a man can do, nice guy or not, to finish first.
1. Act confident. If you don’t believe you can get a date, you definitely won’t. But remember, confidence doesn’t mean arrogance and it doesn’t mean you’re self-absorbed. How do women perceive confidence, you ask? Smile and maintain good eye contact to start. I don’t mean stare her down, or give a smoldering, … Read More
Lila here~ Flipping through a recent Cosmopolitan the other day, I was drawn to the title of an article called “Bacon Sex.” You might think it was the Sex that drew me, but really it was the Bacon. I am shamelessly addicted to bacon, and the thought of combining with another thing I adore was intriguing.
The Bacon, in this case, referred to Kevin Bacon, the actor. Cosmo had asked him the secret to his long and lusty marriage. His answer was short, sweet, and dead-on: “keep the fights clean and the sex dirty.”
Unfortunately, most people don’t know how to fight … Read More
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