The Venus Butterfly is an ancient Tantric lovemaking technique first practiced in India 3000 years ago. It allows the female to experience a high peak of ecstasy by having two primary erogenous zones pleasured at the same time, the clitoris and the G-spot.
It's no secret that to have great sex, you have to be in the right mental mind zone. But being physically prepared plays a huge role in quality hanky-panky too.
Unfortunately many women get their sex education from romance novels or media and assume that every woman will: “Immediately explode with pleasure as his rock hard python enters her.” Truth is, contrary to pop-culture belief, not all women can have a vaginal and g-spot orgasm. This is due to her genetics and not because she’s uptight and/ or doing something wrong during sex.
A study suggests that over 13 minutes is too long.
A study conducted by the Journal of Sexual Medicine suggests that the ideal length for a bout of intercourse is 7 - 13 minutes. And most people find sex greater than 13 minutes to be bothersome. This basically makes ever song ever written false. We're not sure who to believe any more.
For couples, having an orgasm at the same time should be about fun not fuss.
For many couples; the elusive simultaneous orgasm is the WMD of the bedroom: The effects can be explosive; but hunting for it is frequently an exercise in frustration. With a few simple biological facts in mind and a more relaxed attitude it is a lot easier to reach. Ky Henderson explains.