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Wanting What You Don't Want
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Wanting What You Don't Want

I’ve noticed a curious phenomenon among women who’ve recently left a relationship. Full disclosure: I did this myself once when I was in college. This strange thing happens where all of a sudden this guy, whom you’ve decided is not “the One,” becomes desirable again. Not in an “OMG how did I not notice how hot you are” kind of way, but in an “I don’t want you but I don’t want someone else to have you just yet” kind of way.

I'm Still In Love With My Ex [VIDEO]
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I'm Still In Love With My Ex

It's been a while since you two broke up ... well, really, he broke up with you, and you're still feeling heartbroken and confused. And yet, you can't get over him. You've become obsessed with replaying the breakup in your head, and wondering what went so wrong. But you know one thing for sure: you want him back.

The Key to Getting Past Your Breakup
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The Key to Getting Past Your Breakup

We’ve all been there. You just broke up with a boyfriend, husband, or long-term partner. Whether you thought he was The One, or the one for the year or month, it never feels good. Breakups are hard because they represent the loss of a shared commitment. Even breakups that make logical sense are still emotionally painful. Moving on can be hard, but there are essential steps to getting past your breakup that can ensure it takes less time to get from breakdown to breakthrough!

Rebound Relationships: They Can Be Good!
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Rebound Relationships: They Can Be Good!

Behind the barricaded doors of a study room in our dorm, The Hippie Pre-med Guitarist (HPG) and I were locked in a frenzied embrace. I’m not sure either of us would have predicted that this moment would happen when we each woke up that morning, but it was becoming more and more apparent over the increasing time we’d been spending together that our friendship was becoming more electric. At that moment, cradled in his arms, I pulled away and breathlessly confessed:

Dating Leftovers; the Rise and Fall of  'Happy' Companions
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Dating Leftovers; the Rise and Fall of 'Happy' Companions

Over the years I've become very familiar at the task of ending something. As a writer, I put a wrap on my articles. As a mother, I shut down my daughters' tv hour in exchange for a sensible bedtime (and my sanity). As a caregiver, I know when to call a shift completed and over. Even with all of the daily acts of termination that occur, the single tribulation I cannot seem to release and kill off properly is a drowning relationship.

Will Unfriending Your Ex Help You Move On? [EXPERT]
Can you still be friends with an ex on Facebook without stalking his profile?
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Will Unfriending Your Ex Help You Move On?

You might have five minutes in the middle of your day, pull up Facebook and peruse the status updates of your friends. If you are still friends with your ex you may get a surprise while you are scrolling through the news feed.

Living in the Past
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Living in the Past

I am turning thirty later this year and as they say, I am not getting any younger! But I can say in the past month I have felt better about myself and where I am and where I am going in a long time. Its really easy to always look in the past, see the past failures and sob over them and think about the changes you would make. Well here is a tip: YOU CAN NOT CHANGE THEM! So now that you know that look at what you want to change in the present and in the future.

Are You Holding onto Relationship Resentment?
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Are You Holding onto Relationship Resentment?

Are you struggling to release some of that pent up anger you’ve been feeling toward your ex? Did he betray you? Lie to you? Intentionally (at least that’s how it feels) break your heart? I get it. You are harboring some deep resentment and honestly I don’t blame you. But ask yourself, “Who are you really hurting by holding onto these feelings?”

5 Steps to Getting Past a Breakup
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5 Steps to Getting Past a Breakup

1. Learn to self-soothe: It's really a combination of relaxation (some meditation), affirmations, positive self-talk and telling yourself that what you’re PERCEIVING is not necessarily how it is and, even if it is, you can survive it. Believe me, you will believe it after a while. Because the bottom line is: if you want to be okay, you will be.

How To Get Your Sexy Back After A Breakup
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How To Get Your Sexy Back After A Breakup

After a breakup, particularly one you didn't initiate, you may find your confidence crushed. Your mind jumps from being rejected by one man to all the men who ever left you in the past and all the men you think will ever leave you in the future. You blow up this one breakup into meaning the end of love in your life forever. If this is you, you're not alone. Many women, including myself, have felt the deep devastation of a breakup and felt it was the end of the world.

Opening Up To Love Through Compassion & Forgiveness
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Opening Up To Love Through Compassion & Forgiveness

Letting go of hurts and regrets in past relationships is one of the simplest ways to open yourself up to accept Soulmate Love as your destiny and to start magnetizing it in. Simple, but not easy! I remember hanging on energetically to a boyfriend who “did me wrong”- I was still angry for 2 YEARS after we broke up! Yeah sure, I “knew” about how important compassion and forgiveness were, but I just couldn’t seem to let my anger and hurt go.

28 Ways To Move On From A Past Relationship [EXPERT]
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28 Ways To Move On From A Past Relationship

When a relationship is over, it's time to let go. Holding on to a past love clutters up your heart and mind. Letting go opens up the space and possibilities to attract the partner of your dreams. Try these things to stop dwelling on the relationship you had with your ex.

3 Questions To Ask Before Getting Back With An Ex [EXPERT]
Does it make sense to put the pieces back together?
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3 Questions To Ask Before Getting Back With An Ex

For one reason or another, your relationship ended and like many people, you want him or her back. You want to get who you had back and you've got a good idea of how to accomplish this monumental task. Of course, the relevant question here should be "Should you try to get your ex back?" There are good reasons and there are bad reasons to get back together with someone. It's all about examining the cause of the breakup and the reasons behind your current urge to get back together with him or her.