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After breakup – do you keep the ring – or give it back?

After breakup – do you keep the ring – or give it back?

NFL star, Mario Williams, and ex in ugly legal battle over $785k ring. What’s the right thing to do?

As a relationship coach, it’s definitely not my job to muck-rake or publicly weigh in on celebrity disputes when I don’t even know the people involved. It is my job, however, to look for “teachable moments” and try to provide value to people that will help create more conscious, loving and productive relationships. This is one of those moments. Also bear in mind, this is a relationship forum. I am not qualified, nor interested, in giving legal advice here.

How Can You Mend A Broken Heart?

How Can You Mend A Broken Heart?

Say goodbye once and for all

A breakup can be one of the most difficult things a person can ever go through. They wonder how and why the relationship went south, if they'll ever move on, if they'll ever love again. Coach Ivy Allen says you'll do all these things and here's how.

How Long Is Too Long In An On-Again/Off-Again Relationship?

How Long Is Too Long In An On-Again/Off-Again Relationship?

Stop the Break-Up/Make-Up Cycle in 3 Easy Steps

How Long Is Too long In An On-again/Off-again Relationship?     Stop the Break-Up/Make-Up Cycle in 3 Easy Steps     Unworkable love looks normal but feels exhausting.  Unworkable love keeps you repeating the same problems and trying the same solutions over and over again.  Every time you end it, you mean it, but you find yourself unable to stop thinking about him and then you fall for him all over again and return, despite your awareness and what you promised yourself.  This pattern isn’t

The Surprising Way To Get Your Ex Back

The Surprising Way To Get Your Ex Back

That is, if you even want him back when you're done!

Welcome to Splitville! It hurts like hell, doesn't it? There is nothing that stirs your equilibrium like a love lost. Your body just goes numb; this is the lowest low you have ever felt in your entire life. Everything is so gloomy, and you can't see pass today. If you do it's all scary stuff ... a life void of meaning and happiness.

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Are you ready to say goodbye?

From Breakup To Breakthrough: How To Mend A Broken Heart

12 unexpected tips that will ease the pain of your breakup.

Whether you did the breaking up or you've just had your heart broken, there are ways to make your situation just a little easier to bear. Read on for 12 quick and easy tips that will turn your breakup into a breakthrough.

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Resist the urge to stalk your ex on Facebook.

The Post-Breakup Social Media Survival Guide

Don't stalk your ex online, and other rules to live by.

A recent study concluded that the more time you spend on your ex's Facebook page, the more psychological distress you experience, the greater your desire for your ex and the more difficulty you have moving on.

A Hopefully Helpful Note To A Lady Bro

A Hopefully Helpful Note To A Lady Bro

Break-ups are never that easy, especially for women -- nonetheless, feel blessed about it.

There are two ways to go around the hardship of moving on -- suck it up or cry like a GAD patient over it... endlessly. I'm no connoisseur of love, but I have my own perceptions about the topic. Everyone's got a tendency to fall for another. However, to look for a partner (in my own opinion) should be a guy's thing -- whereas women are to wait and be found. Yes, consider yourself royalty as a lady -- be worked hard for.

The 4 Best Holiday Gifts My Ex Ever Gave Me [EXPERT]
Can you guess what's inside?

The 4 Best Holiday Gifts My Ex Ever Gave Me

Look beyond your present pain and see the gifts your ex left in his wake.

I know how difficult the first few days, weeks and months following a major divorce or breakup can be, and how insane it must sound for me to ask you to find a "hidden gift" inside this tragedy. Yet, here I am, pushing you to expand your comfort zone and look beyond your present pain.

Divorce and Holidays: Naughty, Nice and Everything In Between

Divorce and Holidays: Naughty, Nice and Everything In Between

Those early days, months and years after divorce are full of the seductive charm of Naughty.

So, what is it?  Have you been Naughty or Nice this year? The journey of divorce will undoubtedly bring out our Naughty, Nice and everything in between sides. As I reflect back on my year, although I am Jewish and Santa doesn’t exist in my world, I am careful to be honest about whether or not I have been naughty…or nice. The first year or two after divorce, the pull towards Naughty was really strong.

What Can You Do About Toxic Connections With Your Ex?

What Can You Do About Toxic Connections With Your Ex?

Letting go and moving forward post-divorce is scary, but so much healthier.

As Christopher Columbus said, you can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore. It's hard to let go of that shore post-divorce or after any relationship tanks. No matter how bad the relationship was or how much you wanted out, it's still what you've known, possibly for a very, very long time.

Help! I'm Ashamed Of My Past Relationships [VIDEO]
Don't let your past relationships hold you back.

Help! I'm Ashamed Of My Past Relationships

It's not easy moving on after a breakup. Luckily, Jennifer Wilkov is here to help.

Are you embarrassed by your past relationships? Do you feel ashamed, guilty or humiliated? If so, you aren't alone and help is on the way.