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Your Relationship Can Feel Like The Fourth Of July In Feb. [EXP

Your Relationship Can Feel Like The Fourth Of July In Feb. [EXP

Reasons why your money and your marriage are sometimes like July 4th in February…and how to fix that. [EXPERT]   Nature did not invent the $20 bill. But she did give us gold, silver and platinum. The $20 bill gave us Neiman Marcus. Since the dawn of man (woman) the accumulation of ‘stuff’ has defined who a man was; not his innate goodness, his kindness nor his humor. The more one had, the more power he had, the more control he had.

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The check is in ... now what?

3 Ways To Spend Your Tax Refund As A Couple

Couples don't always see eye-to-eye on money matters, so here's how to agree on your tax refund.

You worked hard for it, so enjoy your tax refund together! Invest in your relationship, see what needs adjusting and agree to compromise on how to spend it.

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As of 2012, Sara Blakely became the youngest self-made female billionaire in the world.

Exclusive: Spanx Creator Sara Blakely On Mixing Money & Love

YourTango spoke with the billionaire (yes, billionaire) at the 2013 Women in the World conference.

There's a reason you're not supposed to discuss money on a first date. But Sara Blakely may have taken that romance rule to the extreme, when she waited until 30 days before her wedding to spring on her now-husband a major bomb. Make that a billion bombs.

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Do you keep money secrets from your spouse?

Financial Infidelity: The Downfall Of Too Many Marriages

Plus: five classic mistakes that trigger financial dishonesty.

Chet's "I got this" attitude led him to be dishonest with his spouse about money. It started with small amounts and even good intentions. But, he forgot his companion was riding shotgun, and that dishonesty is a form of "financial infidelity" — the act of lying about, hiding or secretly hoarding money in a relationship.

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How much would you spend on a sandwich?

How 5 Sandwiches Nearly Ruined A Relationship

Mix together two different money personalities with one, small, financial decision and chaos ensues!

It would be funny if it weren't so tragic. A recent CU grad and his girlfriend had been dating for almost three years and things were going very well. You could say they were "serious." Neither one had ever dated anyone else for this long. They enjoyed silly games, working out and healthy debates about editorials in the paper. They knew a lot of the same people, and were committed to finding "the one" and starting a family ... and then five roast beef sandwiches ruined everything.

Why Honesty Is Essential For Intimacy
Don't avoid the hard questions.

Why Honesty Is Essential For Intimacy

What topics do you avoid that could control your relationship?

How big is the elephant in your living room? The things we avoid talking about will keep us away from the nectar of life: intimacy.

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The Hollywood Reporter screening of 'Downton Abbey' Season 3.

In Love & Money: Lessons From 'Downton Abbey'

Mary and Matthew Crawley offer a lesson about the importance of open, honest communication.

This week, I encouraged amy clients to tune into Downton Abbey — and not for the fabulous clothing, the witty dialogue or the historical intrigue. Couples — married, engaged, or in committed relationships — can learn a great deal from the way that two of the key protagonists, Mary and Matthew Crawley, have fiercely disagreed over money.

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Hugh Hefner with his runaway bride, Crystal Harris.

Sugar Daddies: Love Or Exploitation?

A new website facilitates relationships between beautiful, young woman and wealthy, older men.

Meeting an older, richer man and marrying him for his money is purely opportunistic ... according to some. Others have a different view. They believe that love is love at any age and in any tax bracket.

4 Sugary Sweets & 4 Bah Humbugs of Gift Card Giving

4 Sugary Sweets & 4 Bah Humbugs of Gift Card Giving

Giving gift cards - Mistletoe Kiss or Miss?

Remember the last time you were carded? Stop. We mean gift-carded! Most people in this land of plastic have either given or received at least one gift card. The National Retail Federation reports that 6 of 10 consumers say “they’d like to receive gift cards this year.” The to-give-or-not-to-give debate rages on, but all of The 5 Money Personalities™ may benefit from buying gift cards for others.  The Flyer c