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Men Reveal What They Really Desire (For Christmas)

It may not be what you think.

Thinking of getting your boyfriend a button-down for Christmas? Think again. Three words: Men hate clothes. As gifts, anyway. And of course, there are exceptions, but as a general rule, slacks will be frowned upon.

A Few Words About Men And Porn

A Few Words About Men And Porn

Is watching porn simply engaging in a healthy, safe-sex diversion, or is it something more sinister?

Despite the phenomenal growth of the internet as a source of information, entertainment, social networking and product marketing, few businesses have profited more than “adult entertainment” sites – in other words: Porn.  Websites that appeal to the voyeuristic tendencies in men, consistently rank as the most popular and lucrative web-based destinations.  And why is this?  Because, like it or not, guys are very visual, and we love to see naked women engaged in sexual situations with men or (even better) ot

Do You Loathe Being Single?
Does being single give you anxiety?

Do You Loathe Being Single?

Are you the type of girl who avoids being single at all costs? Read on ...

When you find yourself single do you spend all of your time on the hunt for your next boyfriend that will hopefully lift you out of your depressed funk?

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"I give up."

Top 10 Annoying Habits Men Need To Kick

We love you, guys, but these things are making us crazy.

You know that moment when your eyes widen and you think, did he really just do that? Sometimes, no matter how much you love him, your man does that one thing that just irritates the hell of you. New research shows annoying behavior can actually slow down your brain activity. So listen up, ladies, you’ve got your minds to protect. Here's what you have to get your guys to out the kibosh on.

What To Do When Sex Is Always A "Quickie"

What To Do When Sex Is Always A "Quickie"

Is your man a little quick on the draw? Here are some suggestions to help him "slow his roll."

Question: I've been dating a man for over seven months now.  He is 51 and I am 44. I discovered right off the bat that he can't last but a few seconds as soon as he is inside of me. Now in the beginning he said he was too excited, or it was on my territory (ie. my house… so he insisted we go to his house, but same “short” story).

Why Your Date Never Called You Back

Why Your Date Never Called You Back

Dina the dating detective solves the crime of the date who never called back

My name is Deana. But nobody with any sense calls me by the name on my social security card. To them I'm Dina Z. Colada, Dating Investigator.

5 Big Mistakes When Dating a Modern Woman

5 Big Mistakes When Dating a Modern Woman

Yes, these are 5 big turns off when courting a modern woman. Listen up!

You meet this radiant, confident and modern woman.  You notice her at Whole Foods or at business networking event, and you are captivated by her magnetic and positive energy.  You look at her and smile.  Because of her friendly demeanor, you walk up to her and start a conversation.  You notice how easy it is to talk to her.  You leave feeling happy and excited. When you do call her and ask her out on a date, she says, "Yes, I would be happy to go on a date with you this Saturday."  

The Great Toilet Seat Debate

The Great Toilet Seat Debate

Why can't guys just learn to leave the damn seat down? Is that too much to ask? Maybe it is.

We live in complicated, controversial times.  There is upheaval all around us, and vastly differing opinions as to the appropriate way to resolve virtually every problem.  The “right” and the “left” can’t seem to agree on anything…except maybe that they’re both unquestionably, devoutly devoted to the principles that define them – whatever those may be.  But there remains one issue that is more hotly debated than all others combined.  I am talking about, of course, men’s insistence on leaving the toilet seat up.&nb

In Sickness and in Health?  That Depends.

In Sickness and in Health? That Depends.

One would think wedding vows are unambiguous.  Straightforward.  No subtext, no exceptions.  Love is love. Right?“ "Not so,” say some men.  “If you get really sick or disabled, I’m outta here.” A study published in the journal Cancer reported that, of the 515 married patients with serious cancer or multiple sclerosis followed over 5 years, the divorce rate was about the same as among the general population, 11.6%.  The difference was that women were 6 times more likely to be the ones bei

How Soon Should You Jump Into Bed?

How Soon Should You Jump Into Bed?

Is it better to delay having sex in a relationship? Or should you just dive right into the pool?

Question: My question is this…how long do you wait to sleep with a man…one month, two months, more?  Since my eventual goal is to be married, how do I know that the man I’m dating sees me in his future and not just as a  nine-month, ten-month, or even one-night stand?  ...Camille