DeMistyfy Your Dating: Radio Interview: [EXPERT]

And yes, we spelled it that way for a reason! Listen to this humorous interview of Spike and learn!

So I met Coach Andrew Poretz about 4 1/2 years ago at a Quentin's Friends party in New York City. If you live in the tri-state area and you're not a member of QFNY, you need to be! There was immediate affinity, followed by hysterical laughter of everyone around us. Do you know what happens when 2 men have all around them laughing? They attract lots more people who also want to laugh. Big hint there guys.

Why Do Guys Love Blow Jobs? [EXPERT]

5 reasons why men can't resist oral sex.

Men are wild about getting their whistles blown. There are quite a few reasons for this. Here are just a few.

Make Space For Farting Possible

What would happen if men and women ignored "social values" and just "let it fly?"

No, really. This was the discussion between myself and my brilliant new friend Inna Kats who will hopefully be working with myself and my staff on promoting both our new ebook, and our Dating DeMistyfied Workshop in late June. It began innocently enough while talking business, but our personalities seemed like such a perfect fit, that the discussion moved into more interesting topics, like flatulence for example.

happy family — Want to know if your guy wants kids? Step one: show him pictures of kids.

How To Get A Man To Talk About The Future

The Power of Habit author on why men and women talk, think and act differently in relationships.

Want to move the conversation to the topics of marriage and children? Show him photos of your niece and nephew or tell a story about a wedding you recently attended.

What Women Don't Know About Men, Part 2

More "juiciness" to add to the controversy of Part One of this blog.

What Women Don’t Know About Men: Part Two: We have a Mama Complex: You might be surprised at how many men have a “Mama Complex” and are really just looking for a replacement for their mother. Now I’m not just talking about having a woman to cook, launder, and clean up after them; I’m talking about all the early nurturing and love that we, as men truly miss from our formative years.

Up With Masculinity! [EXPERT]

Have our changed views of women seem to have occurred at the expense of how we perceive manhood?

Up with Masculinity I feel blessed to be a woman in our post 60’s culture, where femininity and female strength, independence and success are touted. Unfortunately, however, our changed views of women seem to have occurred at the expense of how we perceive manhood. In short I believe that we’ve lost a real appreciation for men being men. We women want our men to be breadwinners and rescuers (help us when the car breaks down or the sink sprouts a leak). We want our men to be strong, both emotionally and physically.

Men, Women & Money [EXPERT]

Who Should Pay for Dinner on a Date?

In a recent workshop, one of my participants asked the question: “Who should pay for dinner on a date?” This is not the first time I’ve been asked this question. What is interesting though is that the ONLY students who ask me this are my female participants. However this isn’t surprising if we look at women and money from a historical perspective..

7 Ways To Meet The Woman Of Your Dreams [EXPERT]

If you're a guy lacking the skills to meet your dream girl, fear not!

Sometimes guys get a reputation for always wanting to play the field—even when we're in good company--and who are we to fight biology? That said, the truth is the vast majority of men really do want to find the woman of their dreams, the love of their lives, "the one." It's just that, for some guys, the process of finding her, approaching her and talking with her seems unthinkable. To ease their quest and help guys everywhere get what they want, I've come up with seven sure-fire ways to find her, meet her and talk to her!

Is It Normal For Your Man To Notice Other Women? [EXPERT]

Clarifying why men look at other women when they are with someone they say they love

Have you ever noticed your husband or boyfriend casting a glance at another woman’s cleavage or tight jeans? If you haven’t, then you probably haven’t been paying attention. Now and then I have a client ask me something like, “Is it normal that my husband was pointing out the college girls in short skirts at the bar last night?” These women ask out of true curiosity, fear, confusion, anger, hurt and even amusment.

Do You Know How Sexy You Look Right Now?

Sometimes, that one sentence spoken at the right time can mean so much more than anything you can do

We all have egos, and even the most confident among us likes to be praised every now and then. And who out there doesn’t like to hear how great they are in bed, or how sexy they look, or how much they turn their partner on? Now I know the old saying, “Actions speak louder than words”, but sometimes, that one sentence spoken at the right time can mean so much more and have a greater impact than anything you could have done.

Hurricanes, Football & Lessons 101 [EXPERT]

What does it really take for a man and woman to love one another unconditionally?

If three men who are best friends can't get along well for a mere forty-eight hours cooped up together, what chance do men and women have who are trying to be together, build a life together, and love one another unconditionally forever? You see, as men and powerful, confident men at that, we clean up very quickly when we have a disagreement and move on to more important things.