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Solving the Secrets of Your Man
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Solving the Secrets of Your Man

I recently discovered the work on Alison Armstrong – who for 15 years has been honing her message on the important differences in men and women that manifest in the heterosexual marriage in typical and often frustrating ways.  Her wisdom is found in the freedom that comes when we understand each other instead of blame and accuse each other.  Last week I was sharing some of these ideas with a small group of grad therapy students.  One of the men who is newly married, lit up and said, “Oh my gosh, that happene

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Is he a Neanderthal?
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3 Signs You're Dating A Caveman

For thousands of years, guys have been blaming their Neanderthal, hedonistic behavior on their genetics. They say the way they think and act is not their fault, and it's all predetermined because of the seeds of their forefathers.

4 Reasons Why You're Not Attracting Great Men to Date
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4 Reasons Why You're Not Attracting Great Men to Date

How often have you heard a woman (you?) state, with a sigh, that all the good men are taken? It’s been my observation that the women who believe that are the only ones who are experiencing that…so what’s going on here? If you're attracting less than great men into your life, it's very likely that it’s got more to do with you than them. Here are four reasons why that may be true for you. 1. You Get What You Expect

The Top 5 Things Men Need To Know About Sex
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The Top 5 Things Men Need To Know About Sex

1. Men and women both believe in a fantasy model of sexuality.  According to Zibergeld [The New Male Sexuality], both parties have tended to agree that ‘sex’ equals intercourse and that there must be an erection followed by two orgasms – preferably simultaneously.  Unfortunately, many couples who try to strictly adhere to this model and fall short, end up feeling less than adequate.  Sex should not be based on performance but on pleasure, fun and intimacy.  For too many men and as many women there is tremendous significance given to the almi

Lessons In Love From New Film 'Silver Linings Playbook'
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Lessons In Love From New Film 'Silver Linings Playbook'

When my husband and I walked out of the SAG screening of Silver Linings Playbook last Monday he said, "This movie is about love." He also said he could relate to Bradley Cooper's part. Whatever the emotional struggle men have in the world, this movie exemplified them. For some men, dealing with feelings is simply foreign territory and overwhelming. Last night in our Soho neighborhood in New York City, a building was destroyed by fire in a dispute between a man and his wife. He set fire to the building.

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Man up.
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How To Date Like A Dude

Believe it or not, there are some ways women can benefit from taking a cue from our male counterparts. John Gray says that men are from Mars and women are from Venus, and I agree. So, let's take a look at what we can learn from our Martian brothers.

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How will you stay warm this winter?
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12 Dates Of Christmas

The holiday season won't last long. If you blink, you just might miss it. Here's a list of twelve, great dates to enjoy the holiday cheer. No turtle doves or partridge-in-a-pear tree required.

Match Your Online Identity and Real Life Personality
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Match Your Online Identity and Real Life Personality

There is no doubt that messaging and email are becoming a second language. Capitalized words express enthusiasm or anger, multiple exclamation points translate to sheer excitement and emoticons provide the facial expression that can’t be provided by words alone.  Even a simple question mark has as much meaning in a text message as a twenty word reply. Full conversations can be had simply by typing rather than speaking. 

Dating a Gentleman: Lost Cause?
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Dating a Gentleman: Lost Cause?

I’m starting to realize it is the rare man who is actually a “gentleman”. Yes, I consider myself a feminist and a strong woman. But I am also … a “lady”. I believe you can be both at the same time. I want to believe that there are men out there who can appreciate a strong woman who knows what she wants AND who likes to be treated like a “lady”. By “lady” I don’t mean being treated with kid-gloves or holding back a curse word or two. I mean a gentleman who is genuine and kind and who really feels it an honor to be spending time with his date … and shows it.

Give Yourself A Rave Review
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Give Yourself A Rave Review

When you are in the stages of getting to know someone, it’s important to make sure that you are giving yourself rave reviews. This does not mean fabricating stories or exaggerating your successes. Instead, it means that you should work to present yourself in a good light.