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5 Ways To Know You Are Dating a Mean Person
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5 Ways To Know You Are Dating a Mean Person

Everyone is a mixed bag, the kindest person will become irate at times, and the meanest person can be found every now and then throwing some change at a homeless person.  Dating, that effervescent mix of loneliness, want, desire and impatience, leads to blurry vision.  How do you know when the person who is sharply ordering that second dessert to the slow waitress is mean or just having a bad day?

She Wants To Be More Than ‘Friends With Benefits’
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She Wants To Be More Than ‘Friends With Benefits’

Question: I am fairly young, 23, and I've been hooking up with this guy for 7 months now.  When we started hooking up he stated that he didn’t want a girlfriend, and he still feels the same way. Recently I told him that I was developing feelings for him. To protect me from getting hurt he decided that we should end things, saying that he didn’t want to hurt me in the long run (which he believed was inevitable).  Knowing that he said that and that he was capable of doing such a hurtful thing,

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What you don't know might hurt you.
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4 Well-Kept Secrets About Womanizers

Confession: I have been a womanizer for a long time, so I know something about womanizers in general. With that in mind, here are my best pieces of advice for single women about identifying and interacting with men like me.

Happy  Anniversary Viagra.  But You Still Can't Fix Everything!
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Happy Anniversary Viagra. But You Still Can't Fix Everything!

by Aline P. Zoldbrod Ph.D.   (EXPERT)   March 2013 is the fifteeth anniversary of Viagra becoming available  (on the 27th of March, to be exact).  In a lot of ways, Viagra’s invention merits a celebration. Erectile dysfunction is  quite common--more common as men age,  but  not rare in younger men.  Men with  E.D. are miserable. If they are married, they are insecure and defensive, avoid sex, get depressed; sometimes their feelings come out as anger toward their partner.

The Verdict On: Can We Can Be Friends
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The Verdict On: Can We Can Be Friends

Confession time again. My delayed tears have been flowing when I finally couldn't repress and deny how it felt. The fact is, my honorary older brothers were adamant, when a guy says he wants to be friends it's not a good thing. My problem is that I told myself I wasn't hurt. When I finally admitted to myself that I was.... floodgates. Had I allowed myself to face my letdown it would not have come to this. By repressing those feelings they got stronger from all the pressure of being stuffed down.

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The reasons may surprise you.
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Why Dudes Love Online Dating

In a recent study conducted by Harris Interactive for AnastasiaDate.com, a group of 1,000 men were polled on their thoughts on online dating. The men ranged in ages from 35-55. Over half of the men had tried online dating, and of those who tried, over 65 percent had actually met someone through the medium.

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Isn't it time to talk?
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Questions To Consider Before Trying Couples Counseling

There's nothing worse than being forced to do something you don't want to do ... unless you also have to pay for it. Frequently, partners or spouses get dragged into counseling when they'd rather be almost anywhere else. The thought of talking to a stranger about feelings and intimacy appeals greatly to some, disgusts others and terrifies many.

Online Dating Mistakes Men Make
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Online Dating Mistakes Men Make

 Thinking your bathroom is a good photo backdrop Online dating: It’s a phrase that used to be met with looks of puzzlement followed by concern, then massive amounts of judgment. Now, though, it seems that every singleton is attempting to find love through their keyboard, or knows someone who’s met their soul mate online. If you've tried and failed, fret not, guys, we’re here to help! Here are five things you’re doing totally wrong, and how to improve your online dating luck. -- By Gina Cohen

Top 3 Signs Your Man's in Love
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Top 3 Signs Your Man's in Love

Perhaps one of the hardest parts of being The Bachelor on ABC's hit reality show is not being able to say "I love you" until the final rose ceremony - even when his leading lady says the L-word first. All of this ambiguity leaves many contestants wondering how the bachelor feels about them or if he's even interested, and before you know it, drama takes over. Whether dating on reality television or in real life, this is a very common scenario. Most men won't come right out and tell you how they feel immediately, or at least not until they're absolutely sure.

What Guys Keep Missing in Online Dating
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What Guys Keep Missing in Online Dating

When people think about the hardest part of online dating, they often point to the written profile. Oh man, it's hard to write about yourself, right? Funny thing is that while writing about yourself is a skill, it's not writing about yourself, per se, which is the point most men struggle with and stops them from getting dates. They are simply bad at engagement. The goal of every component of online dating is engagement.  

Stop Telling Women To Email Men First
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Stop Telling Women To Email Men First

I got contacted by a female client recently, she had one single follow up question to a consultation I'd given her on her profile, pictures, online behavior and even email techniques. Everything was solid and great, but I was happy to answer whatever this question was. Female clients are not rare to me. I love them. The funny thing is that in my business, Expert Online Dating, I've built a speciality around helping men do online dating.

The Top 12 Reasons Why He Suddenly Quit Calling.
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The Top 12 Reasons Why He Suddenly Quit Calling.

The Top 12 Reasons Why He Suddenly Quit Calling. I was shopping in one of my favorite consignment stores and found an awesome bikini for my trip to LA. yesterday. Shopping and talking about men with the girls is so good for a woman’s soul. It releases oxytocin and we feel so much better about ourselves when it floods our body.