DeMistyfy Your Dating: Radio Interview: [EXPERT]

And yes, we spelled it that way for a reason! Listen to this humorous interview of Spike and learn!

So I met Coach Andrew Poretz about 4 1/2 years ago at a Quentin's Friends party in New York City. If you live in the tri-state area and you're not a member of QFNY, you need to be! There was immediate affinity, followed by hysterical laughter of everyone around us. Do you know what happens when 2 men have all around them laughing? They attract lots more people who also want to laugh. Big hint there guys.

How To Improve Your Intimacy Quotient & Lure Him In

The key to your allure resides in your ability to deeply connect with a man on an emotional level.

Your intimacy quotient is crucial for a man to go from "attracted to you" to "totally intoxicated by you"! This quotient is measured by how intimate your energy feels to him--whether he wants to get closer and closer to you or not by the way you interact with him in quiet, loving and romantic moments. Your capacity for deep levels of intimacy is all related to how much physical and emotional closeness you can tolerate and even INVITE with a man.

Men Are Simple

Women often give men credit for being more complicated than they are. Here's the plain truth.

I think it is appropriate that my first column should deal with the most fundamental truth about men, and that is this: Men are simple. I know some of you may be thinking that I’ve completely sold out my brethren in an effort to pander to my female readers and gain their trust. But that is just not true. Because “simple” is not bad, or inferior, or lacking value and substance. “Simple” means simply…not complex.

Make Space For Farting Possible

What would happen if men and women ignored "social values" and just "let it fly?"

No, really. This was the discussion between myself and my brilliant new friend Inna Kats who will hopefully be working with myself and my staff on promoting both our new ebook, and our Dating DeMistyfied Workshop in late June. It began innocently enough while talking business, but our personalities seemed like such a perfect fit, that the discussion moved into more interesting topics, like flatulence for example.

Playing Hard to Get

Playing hard to get is not a long-term solution to attracting quality men. Plus, it's too tiring!

Do you think that playing hard to get will create romantic tension with a new man and help you to ultimately hook him? Well, it probably will work-- with most men and for a short while. The problem is that it won't work in the long-term and with mature men who know that quality women are REAL people.

How to Roll Your Guys Eyes Back in His Eye Sockets, Every Time.

A departure from the usual, this is Racy, Naughty, and very, very X-Rated!

Okay, so now that I have your attention ladies, I need to inform you that this article may get a bit, shall we say “racy?” If you’re good with that please, continue reading. If not, well, okay then! In this article I’ll be discussing passion, I’ll be discussing control; I’ll be discussing confidence, erotica, guile, and I’ll be discussing a way to surprise your man and knock his socks off in a way that he will never forget. So what will that accomplish?

What Women Don't Know About Men, Part 1 [EXPERT]

The simple things that you don't know about men can kill every relationship possibility you have.

A quote attributed to the great George Carlin states that “Men are all stupid and Women are all crazy. And the reason women are all crazy is because men are all stupid” I’d like to add a few words to this sage verbiage: “And when the few men who are not stupid run into the women who the stupid men have turned crazy, those men in turn suddenly become stupid.” It’s a defense mechanism and we, as men have learned to use it effectively.

How To Be More Intimate & Enchant Men Effortlessly [EXPERT]

If you want to be a modern enchantress, you have to be an expert at using intimacy to lure him in.

The enchantresses in the legends of King Arthur brought balance to a society ruled by male domination. Through their seductive, female magic they magnetized the men of Camelot-- the King’s warriors set aside their brutish behavior and broke their backs to court these women. They acted with chivalry in the hopes of earning a smidgen of feminine admiration and tender, female affection.

6 Things Women Do To Push Men Away [EXPERT]

What not to do to scare your man away!

By Sarah Foulkes, for GALTime When it comes to dating disasters, do you ever wonder, "What went wrong?" or "Why did he break up with me?" The truth is, most often women don’t know why things fell apart-- because they unknowingly played a role in it. Fortunately, David Good, a former "Bachelorette" contestant and winner of the reality TV show "Bachelor Pad", has the answers.

Don't Objectify Me...Just Tell Me I'm Hot! [EXPERT]

Women want to be told they are sexy...just not by EVERY guy.

By Marcus Osborne, SMF, for GALTime.com So race car driver/spokeswoman/model Danica Patrick objects to being called “sexy”? Huh? This is the same woman who’s known just as much for her barely-clothed appearances in Super Bowl commercials every year as she is for being one of the few female drivers on the NASCAR circuit. You’re kidding, right Danica? It must truly be an odd position for women. Quite difficult indeed.

Men, Women & Money [EXPERT]

Who Should Pay for Dinner on a Date?

In a recent workshop, one of my participants asked the question: “Who should pay for dinner on a date?” This is not the first time I’ve been asked this question. What is interesting though is that the ONLY students who ask me this are my female participants. However this isn’t surprising if we look at women and money from a historical perspective..