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Should You Date Without Butterflies?

Should You Date Without Butterflies?

Should you continue to date someone if you are feeling no butterflies or attraction? Read more!

Should you continue to date someone if you are feeling no butterflies in your stomach or attraction? This is a complicated question and one that is worth taking time to study. Look at your previous attractions and see if the people you dated were good for you or lowered your self-esteem. Just because you are have high chemistry with someone doesn’t mean that it will be long-lasting relationship good for you. Similar to sweets, we may love to load up on them but are they nourishing us?

7 Love Lessons From James Bond In Skyfall
The name is Bond. James Bond.

007 Sexy Qualities Every Relationship Needs

We could all learn a thing or two about love from James Bond.

What makes James Bond so successful? And how does he capture romance so effortlessly?

Are You Sabotaging Your Own Dating Life? [EXPERT]
You never know who you're missing out on meeting because of your list.

Are You Sabotaging Your Own Dating Life?

Ditching that list of deal-breakers could help reboot your love life.

I hear singles complain about the hardships of dating and being lonely. They will blame everybody else for not living up to their expectations, but the reality is that they have closed themselves off to many possibilities by failing to be flexible with their preferences. Newsflash! This is the type of B.S that will keep you single!

4 Irresistible Qualities Men & Women Love [EXPERT]
Do you feel irresistible?

4 Irresistible Qualities Men & Women Love

No one can resist these undeniably sexy characteristics!

We asked YourTango readers to tell us which of their body parts they like the best. Resoundingly, the answer we saw most was "eyes." Of course, we all know that attraction isn't all about body parts. It's also about those inexplicable qualities that create chemistry. So, we asked dating coach and YourTango Expert Janet Ong Zimmerman to weigh in on how any person can become more attractive, and here's what she had to say.

4 Qualities to Look For in a Future Mate

4 Qualities to Look For in a Future Mate

Is your boyfriend/girlfriend a match for both you and your future kids?

At one point or another there will come a time in your life when you stop evaluating your significant other according to how much you get along, and you start thinking about whether they’ll be the perfect mother or father for you and your future children. Not only that, if you currently have a child from a previously relationship, stepping forward in the dating world can be a truly stressful experience because you’re constantly evaluating whether he or she could be the future stepmom or stepdad to your kids.