Talking to a brick wall? Is that how it feels when you contact your ex and getting nothing back?
Going to see a marriage counselor is not a life sentence!
If you want to avoid divorce, you will have to put forth the work to making it work.
Find yourself asking this question more often then you should? See Exactly why this happens.
You can improve your relationship immediately by understanding this one big no-no.
Learn to weather the storms of life throughout your marriage and strengthen your relationship.