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5 Secrets Of Happily Married Couples [EXPERT]

5 Secrets Of Happily Married Couples [EXPERT]

What are the key strategies for maintaining a long, happy marriage?

A recent study looked at the survival rates of patients who had undergone coronary artery bypass surgery. The results of this study were eye opening. It was discovered that people in happy marriages were 3.2 times more likely to survive 15 years after the surgery than their not so happily married counterparts. It was found that a happy marriage provided more emotional support and also a greater likelihood of adapting and maintaining a healthy lifestyle. A happy, satisfying marriage can be the biggest factor in our overall wellbeing and survival. Here are some of the b

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Exercise your communication skills to keep it together for the long haul!

How To Make Your Marriage Divorce-Resistant [EXPERT]

Couples who can handle common challenges have more resilient unions and are less likely to end.

The average wedding in the U.S. costs around $30,000. You would think that such an extravagant ceremony would reflect a high level of commitment among married couples. Yet, roughly 50% of marriages in the U.S. end in divorce. That divorce rate rises even more sharply with second marriages. While these sobering statistics may make it seem like the success or failure of your marriage is just a very expensive coin toss, there are concrete reasons why some marriages make it while others fail, and what's more: there are things that you as a couple can do to improve your odds.

A Band-Aid For A Marriage In Crisis

A Band-Aid For A Marriage In Crisis

If your marriage is headed for trouble, read this article and find ways to diffuse tension

This guest article from Psych Central was written by Nadia Person, Ph.D. Imagine a heavy-duty truck riding off the road, slipping down a hill and getting stuck in thick, sticky mud. Trying to get out, it desperately spins its wheels, mud flying everywhere with no resolve. After a long time, there is finally a hopeful sight of another car. The truck begins honking like mad, desperately wanting a much needed pull.

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How A Credit Card Company Can Predict Your Divorce

Will your marriage last? Visa and MasterCard may have the answer.

Remember when Visa promised it was "everywhere you want to be"? Now the credit card giant may be heading everywhere you don't want it to be -- like your love life, your marriage and even (if it's come to this) your divorce.

Think him dead, bring life to your marriage

Think him dead, bring life to your marriage

My husband is young and healthy. He doesn’t smoke. He’s not overweight. He exercises. He’s Type B. His cholesterol is low. He’s not dying anytime soon, but I have his entire funeral planned out anyway. I know who will attend, what they will say, and even what they will wear. I know where I will hold it, what caterer I will hire, and what foods I will serve. It was about 3 years ago when I planned most of these details. At the time my marriage was about as strong as the type of toilet paper used in public restrooms. Guilt consumed me whenever I imagined the heart attack or the car accident that would claim Mr. Strong and Silent’s life. I felt particularly guilty if I was planning his funeral when I should have really been worried, say because he was home later than usual. Rather than worry, however, I felt hope. Perhaps he wouldn’t come home—ever. Then I felt even more guilt intermingled with disappointment when I heard his car pull in the driveway. THE WORST WIFE IN THE WORLD

Relationship Repair

Repair a rela­tion­ship?! Rela­tion­ship is not a car or a machine. So, what is it?

Relationship Help

Rela­tion­ship help may eas­ily turn to rela­tion­ship hell when … So, what are the sources that peo­ple look for when they need rela­tion­ship help?

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Marriage Woes: As Harmful As They Are Hurtful

New research shows marital strain affects men and women differently.

A crumbling marriage triggers signs of depression in both men and women. But it offers up a double whammy to women who, unlike men, may also experience high blood pressure, obesity and high blood sugar as a result of the marital strain, increasing their risk for heart disease, find University of Utah researchers.