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I Have A Confession To Make: I Love 'Small' Guys

In case you weren't aware, there is a contest in NYC called the Smallest Penis in Brooklyn contest (no, seriously). Last year's winner, Nick Gilronan, is pretty much a hero. He told an interviewer, "The size of a man's penis does not matter for who he is as a person or in a relationship." And we couldn't agree more.

Social Anxiety and Sexual Dysfunction
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Social Anxiety and Sexual Dysfunction

When clients complain about sexual anxiety, whether it is the inability to achieve erection or rapid ejaculation, they often find themselves dwelling on everything that could possibly go wrong in a future sexual encounter.  That kind of anxiety starts building up much earlier than the actual event itself and can feel crippling and paralyzing in other aspects of daily life. We call this anxiety “performance anxiety” because it reflects the fears of being unable to perform adequately in front of other people.

How To Give Him A Blowjob He'll Never Forget
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How To Give Him A Blowjob He'll Never Forget

Going down on your guy is one of the biggest gifts you can offer him. Receiving oral pleasure is an amazing treat, giving him the opportunity to relax and receive tons of pleasure with none of the pressure of reciprocating. It is the chance to focus all of your attention on his pleasure. Giving oral to your lover is an act of erotic generosity. So whether it is to celebrate his birthday, a promotion at work or just a random act of spontaneous love, giving him great head can be an important way to lavish him in pleasure and let him know you care about his sexual satisfaction.

When to Have Sex in a Relationship
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When to Have Sex in a Relationship

SEX, SEX, and more SEX. It comes up quite quickly in dating, many times from the first date. It lingers between both of your thoughts and you might be wondering when will be the right time to let all systems go? If you do sleep with him, will it mess up your chemistry and will he end of pulling away? Or, can it elevate the budding chemistry and feed the relationship? If you are looking to attract a long term relationship, here are some ideas to think about.

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What do you wish you would have learned in sex ed?
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9 Things I Wish I Had Learned In Sex Ed

Growing up in a relatively typical Chinese family in Singapore, I received very little sexuality education. Let me give you the context: I did not know that what I had "down there" was called the vulva even though I had the "bits." I did not attempt to pronounce the word penis until I was 26, and as if that by itself was not awkward enough, I was then told that I said it wrong! Here are nine things that I wish I had learned in sex-ed as a teenager...

How Deep Can You Glow?
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How Deep Can You Glow?

Most of us are accepting of hands-on energetic touch such as Reiki as a valid healing modality. We often expect to feel energy exchange in our bodies during a regular massage or Rolfing session. It is pretty obvious that our energy / aura doesn’t end at our skin. If we accept and understand that energy is transmitted from our fingertips then it should be easy to see that energy is transmitted by touch with other parts of our bodies as well. This holds very true during lovemaking.

5 Sexual Myths That Are Holding You Back
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5 Sexual Myths That Are Holding You Back

Myth 1: Lube is For old people Actually, lube is for anyone who wants to have a lot of sex. Or sex in a short amount of time. Or anal sex. Or sex with a condom. Or sex when they are feeling a bit stressed and their body is not keeping up with their libido. Or for anyone taking antihistamines… You see where I am going with this, right? Artificial lube is a great thing for your sex life and it will serve you to get comfortable with it.