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MAKING THE FIRST MOVE

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CheckHimOut.com lets you pick out -- and "check out" -- the guy of your dreams.

How To Make Online Dating (Almost) As Fun As Shopping

New website CheckHimOut.com gives women complete control over the online dating process.

A new website, CheckHimOut.com, just launched on May 7 with the goal of giving women more power in the online dating game. The site encourages ladies to make the first move; that is, rather than waiting for guys to contact them (as, let's face it, most of us do), women must initiate the conversation.

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What American men can learn about sex from their Parisian counterparts.

What American Men Can Learn From French Men About Sex

Angry Single Blogger is in Paris, where the men are a bit more upfront about what they want.

Ah! Here I am in Paris, my loves! I thought for the sake of my heart and sanity, I'd do an apartment swap with a woman here for a month and let the healing from my recent breakup begin. And it has begun… I think.

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Just Ask Me Out Already!

Vague invitations to "hang out" just don't cut it.

It's come up a couple of times recently and it's gotten so irritating that I finally have to say something about it. I'm pretty sure you're not even aware of what you're doing or why it bothers me. So here it goes. I would like you to ask me out on a freaking date.

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Why Men Are Online Dating Failures [VIDEO]

Evan Marc Katz reveals the mind of the online dating man.

One woman—embroiled in the world of online dating—wonders if she should make the first move. Dating expert Evan Marc Katz reveals the mindset of the online dating male.

Love Bytes: Halloween Pick-Up Moves For Men

Love Bytes: Halloween Pick-Up Moves For Men

Top 5 office sex scandals and Disney engagement rings.

10 must-click love and relationship links. Top 5 workplace affairs. [momlogic] Get the lowdown on the sex scandal involving married ESPN analyst Steve Phillips and 22-year-old production assistant Brooke Hundley. [HuffPo] Picking up women on Halloween made simple. [Asylum] Walt Disney princess wedding gown designer has expanded her line to include Disney-inspired diamond engagement rings. [Huliq] 19 hobbies that'll make any man sexier. [TheFrisky]

So You Want To Ask Him Out? Read On

So You Want To Ask Him Out? Read On

In this post-Samantha Jones world of being a single woman, the thing to remember is this: We are not men, so stop trying to date like one.

The Best Way To Ask Someone Out

The Best Way To Ask Someone Out

 Name: Brian || Location: New York , New York |Question: Hi Moxie,so I have a pretty simple question. I'm 40, divorced, been back on the dating scene for 4 years and find I'm falling victim of technology. I am easy going and can speak to anyone about anything, but get just a little tongue-tied when speaking to a woman I have an interest in. For a long while I've used online dating sites and speed dating for meeting women, so if I get a response to an online email or a 'yes' from speed dating I can take it from there.But I find that I've gotten out of practice of simply asking out a woman. And if I do, I'll wonder if they understand I asked them out.  For example I recently was chatting with a woman at an event and as we were parting I asked 'would you like to get together sometime?' She said sure, she'd send me an email, but then I wonder if me question was too vague- I was asking her out, but she might just think it's a friendly get together and