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Great Foreplay Means More Play

Great Foreplay Means More Play

Great sex requires some degree of foreplay to get things going. What is foreplay, really?

No one could argue that a great sexual encounter requires some degree of inspiration to get things going. The catchall term for this is “Foreplay.” But what is foreplay really? Is it words of endearment, spicy texting before you meet, a great massage, two shots of tequila, a house full of lit candles and Erotic Moods playing on the stereo, skinny dipping in a cold lake, or a playful spanking? The answer is, “All of the above and then some!” But how do we know what works for who, how much and when? 

4 Very Hot & Fun Sex Positions!

4 Very Hot & Fun Sex Positions!

Use These Hot & Fun Sex Positions To Make Sex With Your Partner More Fun, Exciting & Hot!

Everyone already knows about the regular, 'tried & tested' lovemaking positions that you can try out with your man like missionary and doggystyle...but what about some fun sexual positions? (P.S. If you're looking for my most powerful tips, tactics & techniques, then you may be interested in the Bad Girl's Bible site) Bodyguard Sex Position

Attention Women: Why A Good Lover Will Finish Last

Attention Women: Why A Good Lover Will Finish Last

Why the best lover for you will listen with his ears and his hands, as well as his heart.

My intention here is to give you something that makes sense for you, that helps you understand some things you may not have understood before, and that as result, helps your relationship and love-making become more exciting, fun, and lasting. Men are driven visually more than women, not that women aren't driven my visual cues as well, but your drive has an emotional component to it that arrives later for men.  Men are also sexually aroused more quickly than women, and unless they are good at controlling their arousal, they can reach orgasm long before you, and some may even think that that is the end of the sex or love-making session.  If that is your experience, you have likely felt some degree of frustration if not anger, even resentment.  That is clearly a breakup waiting to happen.

The 5 Least Sexy: Best Sex Tips To Know

The 5 Least Sexy: Best Sex Tips To Know

Love and enjoy yourself

1. At the center of a thriving sexuality is a “U”. 2. The condition of the heart isn’t just for loving, but also for lovemaking. 3. Slow down. 4. Consent is a beautiful thing. 5. Safety 1. At the center of a thriving sexuality is a U. i. I know it sounds corny, but you have to love yourself first. Come to terms with who you are, how you feel, what you want (not what you think you should want), and authentically enjoy yourself. Be in the moment. {Click here for a Step- by –step

The Tantric Art of Making Love

The Tantric Art of Making Love

Tantra has been nicknamed "the science of ecstasy".  Many assume that Tantra is simply the art of sex. Tantra expands our capacity for pleasure, yet it is much more. Tantra is about living life well and being more alive in the present moment. Tantra is the art of love.  

How Your Mattress Can Ruin Your Sex Life
Invest in a good quality mattress that is perfect for hot, steamy sex!

How Your Mattress Can Ruin Your Sex Life

Find out how the type of mattress you own directly impacts your sex life.

Most financially-savvy Americans are proud of themselves for saving a buck. Whether they use coupons at the dry cleaner or have been driving the same car for 12 years, many consumers pat themselves on the back every time they find a way to cut costs. On some products, however, those savings can backfire and cost you more than you realize.

5 Ways All Men Want To Be Touched [EXPERT]
When was the last time you gave your man a hug?

5 Ways All Men Want To Be Touched

Do you know how to touch your man?

Learning how to touch your man is essential to your relationship's success, growth and development. Many women do not know how to touch a man, and learning this skill is needed for a healthy intimate connection. Touching is a skill that, for the most part, has been forgotten and replaced with other activities, like shopping at the mall.

7 Tips To Ensure You'll Never Have Sex Again [EXPERT]
He won't be whispering sweet nothings in your ear anytime soon.

7 Tips To Ensure You'll Never Have Sex Again

If you're into sexual frustration, you've come to the right place.

One of the most common complaints I receive in my relationship counseling work is, "we hardly ever have sex." Since you might be addicted to the anger and complaining surrounding this issue, I want to make sure you do all the "right things" so you get to continue complaining about it! Here are seven tips to ensure you never have to have sex in your relationship again.

4 Steps to Making Love

4 Steps to Making Love

If you have found yourself in the rut of settling for sex rather than really making love, here are some tips and tricks to move you back in the right direction. Think about it. When we plan for lovemaking, we tend to be more romantic, more thoughtful, and more generous. If you will schedule time and make your passion as important as your email, your TV shows, and your food… you will both reap the benefits of the effort.

How to "Train" Your Man In Bed

How to "Train" Your Man In Bed

Find out why acting like his sex teacher is one of the biggest mistakes you can make...

Most of us women secretly wish for something we’re not getting in bed, and while wishing is important, it doesn’t often get your message through to your man. If you want to teach a man how to make love to your body and heart, you need to understand two key things to succeed. The first, is how to talk to a man about sex (in the right way), and the second is how to express your feminine vulnerability.

Guess When The Busiest Time Of Year For Sex Is...
Right about now?

Guess When The Busiest Time Of Year For Sex Is...

Studies show there are peak times and weather for makin' love (and makin' babies).

The majority of kiddos are conceived during the winter holiday season. If we break this down, we'll find that one part holiday spirit, one part New Year’s Eve hilarity, and one part chilly weather, equals several reasons to strip down to nothing and get it on.