Compatibility & Differences
How do you know if he's the one? Here are fifteen signs.
Even when you're crazy about someone, it can often be hard to know if he or she is "right" for you. How do you know you won't feel differently in a year? Ten years? A lifetime? Deciding if you can commit to someone is a deeply personal determination, and everyone has different criteria. As in any verdict, you have to start by assessing the evidence. With that in mind, YourTango has come up with 15 signs that you're dating a soul mate. You don't have to check off all of these points to be sure about someone—but if you can … Read More
Many women prefer a taller man over a shorter one. If you're a short man, don't worry. Matt and Tamsen declare that there are plenty of women out there who aren't concerned with that.
Give advice and hear what other people had to say: Hung Up On Height
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Featuring America's Love Experts Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal. http://www.askmattandtamsen.com
Boozers love other boozers, says a SUNY study.
Interesting news out of SUNY (State University Of New York) Buffalo. Evidently, the couple that boozes together cruises together.
According to the University At Buffalo's website, Dr. Gregory Homish has been studying the behavior and satisfaction of couples for a decade. He has come to the conclusion that couples with similar vices (alcohol and cigarettes in this case) and levels of engagement in said vices are likely to be more content with their relationship. And the correlation was greater for alcohol consumption than tobacco use. Essentially, heavy drinkers are more likely to be happy in their marriage than a … Read More
Strong, independent women can be a source of concern for some men. Don't let this get you down. Matt and Tamsen chime in with some helpful advice.
See what others had to say and give advice here: Are men threatened by independent women?
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Featuring America's Love Experts Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal. http://www.askmattandtamsen.com
Waiting until marriage to have sex? Know your limits and learn how to deal with men who pressure you to have sex. Matt and Tamsen give advice.
See what others had to say and give advice here: I have limits, how can I make him respect them?
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Featuring America's Love Experts Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal. http://www.askmattandtamsen.com
The ladies at TMI Weekly bring us another great video about the perils and triumphs of love in today's world. Do you ever wish you were more than just friends with someone? Has a friend ever wanted more from your relationship? These situations can be very tricky.
Does his fashion sense make you cringe? Here's exactly what to do (and not do).
I once dated a guy who clothed himself almost exclusively in band t-shirts, pleated trousers, and an ever-present fanny pack. (And no, he wasn't a German tourist.) I remember thinking when we met that I'd finally cast eyes upon the archetypal rock critic. That he actually was a rock critic made the experience all the richer. Because he was smart, funny and cute-ish, I chose to overlook his sartorial missteps and we quickly fell in love. But despite my best efforts—including renaming the fanny pack his "colostomy bag"—I never could convince him to spiff up.
LA-based stylist and personal shopper Eleanor … Read More
Social networking puts infidelity at our fingertips. Here's how to guard against the Facebook lure.
Since starting a psychotherapy practice 15 years ago, I've witnessed three basic waves of technology-based infidelity.
Back in the '90s, my clients generally discovered infidelity when opening their partner's cell phone bill. The story was pretty much the same for all of these clients: they would see countless calls to the same number, dial it up and find themselves speaking with the object of their partner's indiscretions. Then came email, the second wave of technology-assisted infidelity. These stories began to emerge in the late '90s. Suspicious partners would log in to their partner's email account and find plentiful evidence of extra-relational … Read More
The five sexiest accents that drive Americans wild...
As if dating shows couldn't get any worse, there was a new addition to the primetime lineup this summer called Dating in the Dark. Maybe you've heard about it. Three men and three women court each other in a pitch-black room to find out if love is, in fact, blind. While I'm not racing to the next casting call, I do think I've figured out what my secret weapon would be: an accent. Who, I wonder, has never melted like chocolate in a warm hand at the sound of an exotic voice? Give me a nice Scottish brogue and … Read More
Esquire compiles 75 tips for men from famous women.
For as much as we agonize over men—purchase self-help books, enlist our girlfriends as support systems during endless mimosa brunches—it was refreshing to click through Esquire's 75 Things You Don't Know About Women. Women Are Confusing Flirts
It's actually sort of cute to picture the scruffier sex, wide-eyed, analyzing the inner workings of the female mind. Or glancing at the words and focusing on the pictures. Hey, they tried.
We can't imagine men pour over this kind of stuff like we do, but when you have Sarah Silverman explaining the why girls … Read More
