We've all heard about porn wrecking relationships but can it ever help them? From the secrecy that comes from the fear of being shamed to having an porn addiction, is it really possible that watching porn could actually lead to a healthy sex life? Although this may be hard to believe, if you want to know how to fix your relationship, watching porn may actually be the key.

YourTango Experts Lou PagetMarty KleinStephanie BuehlerLori Limacher and Dawn Michael talked about whether porn can bring you closer together as a couple or tear you further apart. Making your partner feel ashamed is a surefire way to bring secrecy into your relationship. In the world we live in today, getting access to porn is pretty easy. A majority of people have laptops, phones, or tablets which they can use at any time. The biggest problem with porn is the amount of secrecy that it causes. Some women try to tell their man they are not allowed to watch porn and end up threatening to leave them if they still continue to watch it. But by doing this, they are only forcing their partners to hide the fact that they watch porn and come up with lies. The only way that porn can affect your relationship negatively is if you let it. Instead of shaming him, why not take the time to just talk to him about everything? Making him feel like he's doing something wrong will only invite heartache in the future if he starts to shut down and hide things from you/

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