Maybe the media blows it out of proportion but it seems like we often spend a lot of time trying to change others around us. Although most of the time we mean well, is this harming our loved ones?

YourTango Experts Senior VP Melanie Gorman is joined by relationship experts Marla Martenson, Carin GoldsteinJen Duchene and Kelly Rudolph to discuss ways to remind yourself to accept our significant others for who they are. Is it possible to love someone wholeheartedly and still feel the need to try and "improve" them? Does this make you a bad person?

Check out the video above for helpful tips on how to fight the urge to bring your husband back and go shopping for a new one. 

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