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What Your Clothes Say About Your Love Life

What a man's shoes says about him and more fashion wisdom from lifestyle guru Derek Warburton.

Stylist Derek Warburton advises ladies on what to wear on a first date, how to tell if he's serious by his clothes and why self tanner is a no no.

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Courtney Love's 5 Most Disastrous Romances

Should Courtney Love's exes start a support group? The singer isn't an easy lady to date.

Courtney Love is having quite the messy, headline-making week. Not only is she embattled in a Twitter war with ex-lover Billy Corgan, she also went on Howard Stern and claimed that she had slept with Gavin Rossdale while he was still dating his now wife Gwen Stefani. Call us crazy, but we think Courtney may be carrying around a wee bit of relationship baggage. Let’s review the former wild child’s romantic history, shall we?

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Dating Tip: 6 Ways To Avoid An Awkward Setup

A dating tip all singles can use: how to avoid being awkward when part of a setup.

Unfortunately, well-meaning friends are not top-notch matchmakers, as nuanced matchmaking requires either supreme intuition, practical training or serious practice on willing subjects. At some point during your season of being single, a friend (or your mom) will probably shove you toward some stranger at a party. Yeah, it's a little awkward, but rather than waste time feeling uncomfortable or shy, why not seize the opportunity to get to know someone new? Here are 6 steps to overcoming an awkward setup.

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Are Women With Tattoos Sexier?

Jesse James cheated on Sandra Bullock with a tattoo model. Do men love women with tattoos?

Could Sandra Bullock have salvaged her marriage if she got a tattoo? A writer reminisces upon her own experience with tattoos and why women find them liberating, while men just can't stop staring.

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7 Things All Single Women Need

Single women wading in the dating pool should keep these 7 essentials on hand.

A list of 7 essential items every single lady should have. From a Romance Pro/Con notepad to a great no-holds-barred dating guide, every single woman wading in the dating pool should keep these 7 things on hand.

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10 Coolest Cougar/Cub Relationships

These sexy cougars turned their wild boys into devoted cubs.

Society is constantly reinforcing the idea that men get better with age while women just get older and wrinklier, so it's no wonder that people have a hard time believing that there are young men who prefer older women. But here are 10 celebrity couples (each with at least a 10-year age gap) who prove that age ain't nothing but a number.

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9 Secrets A Healthy Couple Shouldn't Keep

Nine things to talk about with your new boyfriend or girlfriend. Healthy couples don't keep secrets.

When you're getting serious with someone, there are certain things you need to know about them—partially to assess compatibility, and partially because communication, openness and trust are foundations of a healthy relationship. Don't worry. The major differences you end up finding between the two of you need not be deal breakers. Plenty of couples make it work despite divergent views on politics, money and social issues. But talking about these issues can strengthen and deepen your relationship—or make you realize you don't want to commit to this person after all.

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Dating Red Flags: 5 Signs He's A Control Freak

Red flag warning! Are you dating a control freak?

At first it might have been charming: he orders for you on dates, wards off creepy guys at the bar, wants to protect you. What girl doesn't like being taken care of? But there's a thin line between wanting what's best for you and deciding what's best for you. Here are 5 signs the man you're dating is a control freak.

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8 Most Scandalous Work Affairs

A list of the most scandalous work affairs, how they started, and their aftermath.

Workplace romances are hardly uncommon. After all, you're probably clocking in more hours at the office than at home. It's easy to develop close on-the-job relationships that can take a romantic turn. But what often starts as a titillating romp in the supply room can quickly turn into a train wreck, endangering your career and your future. Are you willing to chance it? If so, you're not alone. Celebrities, politicians and high powered executives have been known to risk everything for an on-the-job fling.

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Top 7 Notorious Playboy Spreads

Ashley Dupre is just the latest woman to parlay a sex scandal into a Playboy pictorial.

If you're a semi-attractive woman caught in a sex scandal, what do you do? Go to church? Apologize to your lover’s wife? Feel just a teeny bit remorseful? The correct answer is: pose for Playboy! And while May’s cover girl Ashley Dupre is the latest harlot to grace the magazine's glossy pages, she's hardly the first.

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4 Strange Sex Disorders We'd Rather Not Encounter

Everything from sex headaches to persistent arousal, check out our top 4 sexual disorders.

A look at four odd sex-related disorders: Restless Genital Syndrome, coital cephalalgia, sexsomnia and priapism.