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How To Give A Great Hand Job: 7 Tips
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How To Give A Great Hand Job: 7 Tips

There is a right way and a wrong way to go about giving your man a great handjob. Today I want to show you the right way to give your man a handjob. Thankfully it's not rocket science. Concentrate on just getting a few of the following things right and your man will be in heaven when you jerk him off. (P.S. If you want to learn my best blowjob tips & techniques, you'll find them in this powerful video)

5 Powerful Foreplay Techniques
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5 Powerful Foreplay Techniques

There is a rumour that just won't die. It's that men don't enjoy foreplay. Let me tell you right now...This is just not true. Men adore foreplay, especially if you use the right foreplay techniques on him. And if you do foreplay the right way, he will literally explode in orgasmic bliss.

10 Love Tools For Romance and Mutual Couple Satisfaction
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10 Love Tools For Romance and Mutual Couple Satisfaction

“Wired for love : how understanding your partner’s brain and attachment style “can help you defuse conflict and build a secure relationship  by Stan Tatkin is one of the most practical couple’s book in recent years. Tatkin explains how the brain is wired for different types of people and how the wiring influences how people relate to one another. Here is an overview of the 10 tools he outlines in the book.

5 Benefits Of A Romantic Getaway [EXPERT]
When was the last time you got away?
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5 Benefits Of A Romantic Getaway

If your relationship is in a rut and you need to reignite the spark of romance, then a romantic getaway is just what the doctor ordered — the love doctor, that is. Few things can give your marriage a shot of adrenaline better than a romantic vacation. Here are five reasons why a romantic getaway would be beneficial to your relationship.

How To Maintain Intimacy After The Birth Of A Child
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How To Maintain Intimacy After The Birth Of A Child

There is so much excitement in the air when both of you find out you are going to have a child. Unfortunately, you would experience a lot of problems when the baby comes out. You will find out you won’t have time for each other anymore because of the new member in your family. However, this is just another obstacle in making your family work as you must sacrifice for the good of your child. If you find yourself not getting enough time with your partner then you must know you will get more time with him when the baby grows up.

Grin and Bare it All
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Grin and Bare it All

Panty Parade / Off Go the Panties Yeah, sure, it seems like the real deal. Here he is telling me all of the racing thoughts going through his head the last time he ducked out on me: God, damn! I just want to go back and fuck her brains out! Here I go again, why do I keep doing this? What the hell am I doing? Ok, just one more time. . . .

Vulnerability is Essential to Love
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Vulnerability is Essential to Love

Why is self worth necessary in order to be vulnerable? When we seek validation from others, we give away our power by letting them define our worth. If your worth depends on your partner’s validation, you won’t say what’s really on your mind and how you feel. You’ll censor your words and emotions in order to get your partner’s love, approval and acceptance.

Dear Dr. Romance: My Best Friend Is Leading Me On. What Do I Do?
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Dear Dr. Romance: My Best Friend Is Leading Me On. What Do I Do?

Dear Dr. Romance: My best friend is leading me on. What do I do? My best friend has been leading me on for quite a while. We flirt a lot but we still aren't dating. A month ago, we confessed that we liked each other, except he wasn't ready for a relationship. I was okay with that. But now it just seems like I'm falling into the friends with benefits category. Today he took me out for a walk. He put his arm around my shoulder and I put my arm around his waist. It was out of the ordinary.

6 Types Of Daters: The 'Sex Pot'
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6 Types Of Daters: The 'Sex Pot'

Let me start today by telling you how magnificent you are. The fact that you are a woman over 40 and reading this tells me that you are all the more spectacular. Really, it does! One of the reasons finding love over 40 can be the most gratifying time of all is that you know your sphere of power. You’ve learned you are only in control of you, no one else. Life has taught you that you cannot control co-workers, friends, and especially the men you date…or marry, for that matter. (Though I’m quite sure you occasionally try.)

3 Surprising Myths About Men
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3 Surprising Myths About Men

It’s easy to misinterpret what men really want. Whether it be what they want from a woman, or from a relationship, the movies, media and our girlfriends give us mixed message that leave Dignity Daters confused, frustrated and possibly even making tragic dating mistakes that leave them stuck in their romantic rut. Today we’ll dispel some common myths in the “Dating with Dignity Guide to What Men Really Want: Three Myths and Three Truths to Stop Wondering Today!”

10 Warning Signs That Your Husband Is Cheating
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10 Warning Signs That Your Husband Is Cheating

10 Warning Signs That Your Husband Is Cheating 1. Short and brief about his day. Is your husband’s communication getting shorter by the day? If he's not forthcoming about his day and you feel that he is being short and brief about it, you may need to ask him to elaborate. If you feel like there is something that he’s not telling you then you’re probably right.

Alternative Uses For Personal Lube
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Alternative Uses For Personal Lube

1. Removes things that are too tight. Your engagement ring is too tight? No problem. Move the ring around, and a pour a few drops of  silicone underneath. Turn the ring around the finger a time or two, and rub more lubricant on again. Then gently pull the ring off the finger, working it back and forth and turning it gently as you go.

4 Reasons Couples Should Redefine Sex
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4 Reasons Couples Should Redefine Sex

4 Reasons Why Long Term Couples Should Redefine Sex To Focus On Connection, Not Perfection  (EXPERT) I'm a couples and sex therapist, and I'll give you my definition of good sex.  It will most certainly surprise you: Good sex is regularly getting naked with another person you love, touching each other tenderly,  expecting something good to happen, and being delighted and appreciative of whatever does happen.. You don't know exactly what it will be. It's different every time.

'Hope Springs': A Revolutionary Film About Marriage [EXPERT]
Kay (Meryl Streep) was ready to change her marriage. Are you ready to change yours?
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'Hope Springs': A Revolutionary Film About Marriage

This past weekend, I was fortunate enough to catch the newly-released movie Hope Springs, written by Vanessa Taylor, producer and scriptwriter of the television series Game of Thrones. Coming out of the movie, I tried to sort out the many messages and lessons that sprung forth (pun intended).

11 Subtle Signs You're On The Verge Of An Affair [EXPERT]
Could you be the next Kristen Stewart?
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11 Subtle Signs You're On The Verge Of An Affair

In light of all the controversy still surrounding the Kristen Stewart/Rupert Sanders affair, let's take a look at some of the ways affairs actually begin. For most, affairs aren't necessarily wrapped up in mere curiosity. Nor are they always about the sensual, sweaty romp most imagine. Sometimes, it's not even about sex at all.

Date #2 At His Place: Innocent Invite Or Sexual Scheme? [EXPERT]
Is dinner at his place code for sex?
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Date #2 At His Place: Innocent Invite Or Sexual Scheme?

My client Kendra met Mike through an online dating site. The first date went great. Kendra found Mike attractive, a good conversationalist and friendly. She felt comfortable with him and thought he had serious potential. Mike sent Kendra an email the next day saying he had a nice time. Then, three days later, he emailed Kendra offering to cook dinner for her. This proposition put Kendra in a quandary.