When you hear the word “Tantra” you very likely are going to think about learning different ways to enhance your sex life. Holy cow, if you practice Tantra with your lover, the two of you are going to have orgasms out of this world! Maybe, maybe not. Yes, there are great breathing techniques, special positions, hand positions (mudras) and special ceremonies to enhance your sex life and your orgasms, but that is not what Tantra is all about. If you open your heart and your soul, you will find that Tantric practices are just one way to help you gain access to the Divine; a higher purpose.
On a first date or a first encounter with someone, the objective is usually to get to know someone better which will hopefully lead to a second date. Despite what Sex and the City episodes told us over the years, generally an afternoon coffee date does not end up with an impromptu sex fest.
Connection with the people who are important to us is a vital need for all of us. Our brains are hard-wired to share love and connection with others. Many of us know that infants and children need a loving connection with their parents to thrive, and that many emotional problems result when this connection is not available.
Are you looking for the perfect intimate New Year’s activity for you and your significant-other? Look no further. This 4-Step activity I’m outlining below can be used for either personal reflection, as a group activity on New Year’s Eve, or for an open and intimate conversation with that special person in your life. For best results, I recommend going through this process alone the first time before sharing your responses with others.
In the early stages of your relationship, you may very likely have experienced moments when at the touch of your partner your breath hitched, your heart sped up and the next thing you knew your breath caught up with your heart rate and came fast and heavy. Yet, have you considered just how important breath is to your intimate life with your lover?
When you hear the word “sensual” you are most likely going to relate it to something sexual. If someone says to you, “You should try these strawberries. They are the most sensual fruit I have ever tasted,” where does your mind go? Does it click in on just the fact that those strawberries must have been ripened to perfection? Or does your mind instantly click to a sexy image of biting into the fruit? What if someone offers to take you on a sensual journey? The first thing that probably comes to mind is the sexual scenario implied
I have been studying gratitude lately. In keeping my first gratitude journal, I have learned that paying attention and recording the gifts of life actually fills you up more quickly than you can fill up a journal. It is like a system reset, coming back online with a clearer vision of what is good.
My last blog post about the rules for romance when you live with roommates got me thinking more about all of the awkward situations that can arise when you live with other people.
If you really want to learn how to arouse your man, then you need to stimulate both his body AND his mind. You'll be glad to know that doing this is not just a case of being overtly sexual. I'm going to show you some really subtle, fun and easy things you can do to turn him on and arouse him both mentally and physically.
Sex, making love, physical intimacy, and other words like these conjure up images and thoughts in our minds of some of the most amazing times in your marriage bed. There is passion, romance, toe curling excitement that send shivers down your back. Are you tracking with us? Sex is AWESOME!!! Maybe you hear these words and you aren’t so excited. Sex has become stagnant and boring. Right now you are not sure what to do to get the spark back in your bedroom.
As a marriage and family counselor I am always dealing with issues of sexuality, infidelity, and betrayal as well as intimacy, honesty, courage, and integrity. A rash of recent public scandals – from Tiger Woods to David Letterman, from Sen. John Ensign to Gov. Mark Sanford, to the suspected shenanigans of Jon Gosselin of reality TV's Jon and Kate – might make it seem that sexual infidelity is sweeping the land. Many of my clients want to know how to prevent an affair. Here’s what I tell them.
You'll be really glad to know that learning how to make a guy cum powerfully is surprisingly simple. These 5 tips will help to blow your man's mind, the right way. (P.S. If you want to learn my best dirty talking tips & techniques for building sexual tension & turning him on, you’ll find them in this powerful video)
There is absolutely no need to be nervous when learning how to suck cock. You'll find that it's actually surprisingly easy to suck your man's cock even if you don't have that much experience. Just like I say on the Bad Girl's Bible, all you need is the right advice. With that in mind, the following 5 cock sucking tips will get you up to speed quickly with giving your man fantastic blowjobs.
Once you know how to please your man in bed, then you can be pretty certain that other women won't even enter his mind. If you can do the following 5 techniques, then you will be giving him everything he could possibly want in bed. Just remember that you won't be able to learn all of these things in just one day!