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Questions To Ask Before Having Sex

Questions To Ask Before Having Sex

Becoming intimate with your new partner can be a very exciting time in a young relationship. At some special moment you enter the realm where true intimacy begins, and infatuation is transformed into something deeper and more real.

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Talking Sex With Family: How Much Is Too Much?

Intimacy or oversharing? Striking a balance between your family and your relationship.

As the headlines are filled with news of Joe Simpson allegedly calling out John Mayer for his "sexual napalm" comments regarding daughter Jessica while Angelina Jolie is photographed reunited with her long-estranged dad Jon Voight, we've been pondering family bonds and boundaries. When it comes to talking sex with family, how close is too close? What should you share with your family and what should remain between you and your partner?

Week #13--Creating Couple Intimacy

Week #13--Creating Couple Intimacy

As I’m getting my fill of intimacy from interactions with my children, my husband, meanwhile, sits in the wings waiting for me to throw him an intimacy bone. It’s not that I don’t want to share intimate experiences with my husband or that I don’t feel I have the capacity to take in any more of these wonderful feelings. Plain and simple: I’m already intimately satiated.

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7 Ways To Show Love Without Words

How do you show love without words? Experts sound in.

Saying "I love you" is an excellent way to show someone you care about them. But sometimes words are not enough. Here, seven YourTango ProConnect experts explain how to show your love without using words.

Unleash Your Inner Freak

One of the biggest complaints I get from women (and men) in long term relationships is that the sex has become either stale or non-existent. There are lots of reasons for this: busy lives, children, work related travel, and the fact that the more intimately you know someone, the harder you have to work to maintain an erotic edge. I thought I’d give some tips to spicing up your sex life in a few easy steps.

Week #3--Intimacy in Odd Places

Week #3--Intimacy in Odd Places

Week #3 of my Six Month Sex Challenge: This week I focus on my husband’s sexual needs. Lesson learned from last week: Having my sexual needs met won’t always be greeted with the type of enthusiasm I would like.

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7 Reasons Winter Romance Rules

Cold winter nights can create the hottest romances, check out our list of seven sexy reasons.

Sometimes winter can seem like a drag—runny noses, dry skin, biting cold, days spent inside... you know the drill. Well instead of pining for the romantic rites of spring to start, focus on all of the many ways a winter affair can warm you up, pass the time and bring color to your cheeks!

how to have sex like you just met

How To Have Sex Like You Just Met

Keeping the intimacy alive starts outside of the bedroom.

When you've been together for awhile, the sizzle in your relationship can oftentimes reduce to a low simmer. In Joselin Linder and Elena Donovan Mauer's "Have Sex Like You Just Met," a new book due out this month, you'll find a multitude of tricks for keeping the intimacy alive, and the sex life sizzling. Because monogamy without makin' love can be very monotonous, indeed.

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Should A Boyfriend Double As A Best Friend?

Why it's not always a great idea for him to know every single thing about you.

The first time I met him, I thought my now-boyfriend was a really cool guy, and I hoped we would become friends. Now, this man is not only boyfriend—he is my closest friend now, too, the one who knows everything about what goes on with my family, what goes on at work, what weird dreams woke me up in the middle of the night. And I'm not entirely sure that's a good thing.