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5 Behaviors that Could Sabotage your Budding Relationship
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5 Behaviors that Could Sabotage your Budding Relationship

As a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and former therapist my job is to help clients uncover patterns of behavior that sabotage their goal of finding love. My specialty is preparing Singles over 40 to return to the dating world, date more mindfully, and gain the highest level of results in their dating lives. Having worked as a Dating Coach and Matchmaker since 2005, I have seen recurring themes in my clients that have sabotaged budding relationships. Here are the five biggest pitfalls I have noticed.

How to Change a Selfish Lover (VIDEO)
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How to Change a Selfish Lover (VIDEO)

The adage “It’s better to give than to receive” is applicable in more ways than one, especially when it comes to bedroom intimacy. Having a selfish significant other can be a bit of a problem when the selfishness becomes a habit. So how do you handle it? We interviewed relationship expert and psychosexual therapist Dr. Sara NasserZadeh on how to resolve. Click here to watch the video!

Is Sex Sinful?
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Is Sex Sinful?

Hundreds of thousands, more than likely millions, of people have grown up being taught that sex is a sin. It is considered dirty and should only be done to produce new life, and even then it should be done quickly and with extreme secrecy. In some ancient societies, if a woman was raped within a town or village not only was her attacker stoned to death, but so was she!

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Wait until it's right before you get down and dirty!
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5 Tips To Help You Decide When To Have Sex

The ladies in my Master the "Mystery of Meeting Men" telecourse have been talking about S-E-X. When is it okay to have it? How do you decide? This is such an important conversation! You may think "I'm not even dating yet ... who cares!"

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How much is too much?
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Why Porn Is Like Junk Food

This one's for a guy's eyes, but women, you're more than welcome to be a fly on the wall. It is perhaps a good spot to inhabit while taking a fresh look at the confusing, confronting topic of men and their porn habits!

Relationship Risks You'd be a Fool NOT to Take
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Relationship Risks You'd be a Fool NOT to Take

Are you a risk-taker? Have you leaped from an airplane? Scaled treacherous mountainsides? Braved shark-infested waters? There are many ways to take risks. Some of them are more obvious-- such as those above-- and others are a little less so. There are risky behaviors you might take in your relationship too.

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7 Sexy Suggestions For Better Boinking

Great sex is totally subjective. What I used to consider great sex does not even come close to subsequent sexual experiences, especially in recent years. I didn't know what I was missing because, at the time, I had nothing better to compare it to. Luckily for me, sex has become progressively better as I've learned so much about my own sexuality and relationships over the years. I have also learned a lot from working with couples on relationship and intimacy issues. In particular, I've gained great insight into women who have hang-ups with sexual intimacy.

Discover the Key to Intimacy
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Discover the Key to Intimacy

It always seems to happen after a great romantic movie. The leading lady gets the man of her dreams. You know, the one that instinctively knows her every thought and wish and eagerly seeks out ways to make her every desire a reality. And as you leave the theatre with the annoying feeling that you stepped in something sticky and are afraid to see what it is, you wonder why you can’t find that sensitive man.

What Is Intimacy?
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What Is Intimacy?

She interrupted my talk to tell me that I should say the word differently to make its meaning clear. Instead of intimacy, I should say it into-me-see. She had a great point. The Dictionary defines intimacy as “a close, familiar, and usually affectionate or loving personal relationship with another person or group.” In the social sciences we think of it as closeness, openness, vulnerability, and transparency. Pronouncing it into-me-see does a great job of giving the meaning in the way the word sounds.

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Who should really be in charge?
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Who Should Make The First Move?

When it comes to intimacy and sex, there are a few common questions that race through the minds of every couple. Are you more likely to take charge and be more dominant? Or do you prefer when your partner is in control? Spending so much time wondering what is going through your lover's mind can be a mood killer. In this installment of "That's What He Said", the guys talk about who should take over the reigns by taking initiative in the bedroom. Check out the video above to find out what he's really thinking when it comes to your sex live.