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 3 Ways to Open to Intimacy when You're an Abuse Survivor
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3 Ways to Open to Intimacy when You're an Abuse Survivor

It happened again. Gwen and her husband, Paul, were snuggling on the couch. The kids were in bed and they finally had a few moments to be alone together. It felt so warm and comfortable for Gwen to be in Paul's arms. He stroked her back and they began to kiss-- affectionately at first and then with increasing passion. As the intensity of their intimacy grew, a part of Gwen began to withdraw. Yes, she was physically right there with Paul as they kissed and stroked one another, but on the inside she was freezing up and the moment was no longer pleasant or comfortable for her. Paul could sense her pulling away from him and asked if she was okay. She sighed and replied that she was “just tired.” They turned on the tv instead of heading to the bedroom.

25 Benefits Of Working With The Bedroom Joyologist
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25 Benefits Of Working With The Bedroom Joyologist

For The Conscious Woman With a Conservative Background I have checked these off my list (although always working on it!) and now I'm here to help you do the same. Wake up with more excitement for the day to come. Experience more motivation to take better care of yourself. More passion, purpose and direction in life.

How to safely clean adult toys
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How to safely clean adult toys

Buying a sex toy can be a bit of an investment, they can be costly. People find though, that they are totally worth the price. But why pay all that money, learn to love your new sex toy, only to have it destroyed by improper care. Or worse, have your favorite sex toy hurt you with an infection. If you’re going to have sex toys, you should also buy sex toy cleaner. Sex toy cleaner is not just soap and water; it is not even just a fancy alcohol swab. Sex toy cleaner comes in many varieties, just as sex toys do.

3 Tips To Attract The Intimacy You Desire
Attracting intimacy is as easy as 1, 2, 3!
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3 Tips To Attract The Intimacy You Desire

Dictionary.com defines intimacy as a close, familiar, and usually affectionate or loving personal relationship with another person or group. While it may sound contradictory or harsh, the truth is that many of us have sex without being intimate. If you've had your share of one night stands, relationships with men or women that just didn't "get" you, or found yourself longing for a partner who would really feel like a partner, then perhaps what you really may be missing is intimacy.

Everything You Need To Know About Chemistry
Have you noticed that indiscriminately following your attractions often ends in disaster?
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Everything You Need To Know About Chemistry: Part I

Have you noticed that indiscriminately following your attractions often ends in disaster? If so, you've come to the right place. In this series of articles, I'll take you on the chemistry journey of your life. As we travel together, you'll begin to look at your relationships differently. You will be empowered at times when you've previously felt lost or confused. Let's begin.

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Sex addicts can never can get enough of what won't satisfy them.
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Is Sex Addiction Just A Myth?

Sex addiction. Each word evokes complex thoughts, images, and responses. Put the two together and there is the possibility for controversy and confusion. Is sex addiction real, or is it just the latest cop-out for bad behavior?

Beyond Orgasm—Creating True Intimacy, Sexuality & Love
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Beyond Orgasm—Creating True Intimacy, Sexuality & Love

Relationships can truly be the source of our greatest pleasures in life. I am truly committed to helping people discover that they actually have the power to create such profoundly loving and nurturing relationships. In my first three articles I’ve discussed the transformational process of getting out of the box, and accessing your true self that is always waiting to be expressed.  This is true for everyone—especially you!!

Take Your Lovemaking To The Next Level
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Take Your Lovemaking To The Next Level

Has lovemaking with your partner become a bit too predictable? It might be pleasurable, but there isn't the same level of passion that you used to enjoy with your mate...or maybe that you've always wanted to experience but never have. Even if you feel satisfied in the bedroom, it could be that you'd like even more.

3 Tips For Reviving Relationship Intimacy
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3 Tips For Reviving Relationship Intimacy

 So you and your mate have been together for awhile now and it seems to you that intimacy and passion are dead and lifeless? Perhaps you look back to your early years together and wistfully remember when time spent together with your partner seemed alive and even red hot. Or it might be that your intimacy has never felt as close as you'd like. Maybe you've always longed for a spicier and more connected relationship. There are varying levels of intimacy in love relationships or marriages.

What Is Our Greatest Addiction?
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What Is Our Greatest Addiction?

I don’t have an addictive personality. I’ve dabbled in just about everything. I’ve smoked, gambled, tried any number of substances, but I’ve never been hooked on any of them so badly that I couldn’t stop. I consider myself fortunate. But there is one thing that is a total contradiction to what I have just professed. Sex!

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Regain your sexy relationship with these 10 tips!
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Have You & Your Partner Lost That Lovin’ Feeling?

After many years of being in a committed relationship, both people very busy, kids running around, family obligations, and possibly even two careers and a household to manage, it’s not shocking that intimacy would be the last thing on someone’s mind.

The Power Of Pillow Talk
Don't underestimate the beauty of words while you're making love!
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The Power Of Pillow Talk

What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the phrase “erotic talk”? Well, if you said, “talking dirty”, your answer is the one I most often receive whenever I pose that question. In fact, in a survey I conducted of 300 men and women, that was precisely the most popular response. Yet, as I explain in my book The Fine Art of Erotic Talk (Bantam/Random House), explicit sex talk is just one aspect of the powerful role that words can play in our sex lives.

5 Behaviors that Could Sabotage your Budding Relationship
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5 Behaviors that Could Sabotage your Budding Relationship

As a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and former therapist my job is to help clients uncover patterns of behavior that sabotage their goal of finding love. My specialty is preparing Singles over 40 to return to the dating world, date more mindfully, and gain the highest level of results in their dating lives. Having worked as a Dating Coach and Matchmaker since 2005, I have seen recurring themes in my clients that have sabotaged budding relationships. Here are the five biggest pitfalls I have noticed.

How to Change a Selfish Lover (VIDEO)
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How to Change a Selfish Lover (VIDEO)

The adage “It’s better to give than to receive” is applicable in more ways than one, especially when it comes to bedroom intimacy. Having a selfish significant other can be a bit of a problem when the selfishness becomes a habit. So how do you handle it? We interviewed relationship expert and psychosexual therapist Dr. Sara NasserZadeh on how to resolve. Click here to watch the video!