“Is that normal?” This question has popped out of just about everyone’s mouth at one point or another. If you’re married or in a love relationship, you may have asked your closest friend or silently wondered this.
INTIMACY AND SEX
People are pretty busy these days, and I bet you are too. There’s always so much to do that actually taking the time to go out and learn how to keep your sex life hot, is a fantasy in and of itself. You might not even have a high quality sex shop nearby that offers live classes, so it’s only been books and DVDs to show you some tricks and tips.
For an intimate connection to grow, it needs attention and nurturing. While this is true for every couple, it is mission critical for couples rekindling intimacy after sex or porn addiction has wreaked havoc on their lives. My wife and I call this condition "sex affliction." Sex affliction occurs when a relationship suffers a profound attack against its safety, vulnerability, intimacy, and sex, caused by one partner's sexual betrayal with porn and/or people.
When you hear the word “Tantra” you very likely are going to think about learning different ways to enhance your sex life. Holy cow, if you practice Tantra with your lover, the two of you are going to have orgasms out of this world! Maybe, maybe not. Yes, there are great breathing techniques, special positions, hand positions (mudras) and special ceremonies to enhance your sex life and your orgasms, but that is not what Tantra is all about. If you open your heart and your soul, you will find that Tantric practices are just one way to help you gain access to the Divine; a higher purpose.
There's so much going on between Thanksgiving and New Years that causes couples to forget about each other. Despite all the added obligations that come up with family, friends, children and just being involved all the time, single people still need their weekly dose of spicy sex, no matter the time of year.
In the early stages of your relationship, you may very likely have experienced moments when at the touch of your partner your breath hitched, your heart sped up and the next thing you knew your breath caught up with your heart rate and came fast and heavy. Yet, have you considered just how important breath is to your intimate life with your lover?
Intimacy is an essential part of a loving relationship. But what is intimacy, really? It is being present and open to each other. Intimacy starts with being relaxed and comfortable with each other and progresses to sharing thoughts, feelings, kisses and caresses. Robert and Shelly made a lot of progress in their therapy with me. They were communicating better about important issues such as finances and resolving disputes, but they both felt something was missing. As Shelly put it, “I feel lonely at times even when we are together.”
"My husband and I have a great working relationship. He's great to the kids, he's nice to me, he works hard on the house but he isn't very interested in getting to know me for who I really am. Any exploration around personal growth is threatening to him. Sometimes I feel so depressed to think I'll spend the rest of my life with this person when I want so much more, but there isn't anything wrong to point to as to why I would leave."
Sex, making love, physical intimacy, and other words like these conjure up images and thoughts in our minds of some of the most amazing times in your marriage bed. There is passion, romance, toe curling excitement that send shivers down your back. Are you tracking with us? Sex is AWESOME!!! Maybe you hear these words and you aren’t so excited. Sex has become stagnant and boring. Right now you are not sure what to do to get the spark back in your bedroom.
You'll be really glad to know that learning how to make a guy cum powerfully is surprisingly simple. These 5 tips will help to blow your man's mind, the right way. (P.S. If you want to learn the best blowjob tips & techniques, you'll find them in this powerful video)
As varied, diverse and unique each couple and relationship is, they all face a common set of problems which brings them to seek outside help. Here is a list of the most common ones: 1. Fighting: this is usually the point where couples start thinking about seeking a third party's help, be it a counsellor, a therapist or a relationship coach. Typically, they go on and on in circles around the same perpetual issues without ever finding a satisfactory solutions. This leads to frustration, withdrawal and in the long term, increased isolation from the relationship.
There is a right way and a wrong way to go about giving your man a great handjob. Today I want to show you the right way to give your man a handjob. Thankfully it's not rocket science. Concentrate on just getting a few of the following things right and your man will be in heaven when you jerk him off. (P.S. If you want to learn my best blowjob tips & techniques, you'll find them in this powerful video)
If you're dissatisfied with the sex you are having with your partner, talk about it. Do so with kindness and clarity. Here are 4 tips to help this conversation flow easily.