If you Google “sex,” you’ll get a range of pages aimed at improving your sex life through the use of vitamins, exercises, better techniques, and tips on how to make the experience more pleasurable. You’ll find pages upon pages dedicated to toys and tools that can be used to spice up your sex life. (And yes, you’ll find a lot of porn sites, too.)
INTIMACY AND SEX
A long term relationship can sometimes result in a lack of initial intimacy. With all the adult responsibilities and stresses in your life, sometime you may just not be in the mood. But Leilla Blackwell shares her revolutionary attitude that can give you the best satisfaction in any circumstance.
I am a proponent of having regular sex, whether you actively desire it or not. Maybe I should shift the terminology and say “engage in intimacy” rather than have sex. I believe that the benefits of engaging in regular, and go as far as to say daily doses of pleasurable intimacy serve to bring a couple closer together, promote trust, love and even fidelity.
Dying to know if your partner is satisfied with your sex life? Are you constantly wondering if there's anything you can do to heighten the pleasure? We're going to let you in on the secret to finding out if you're good in bed: You're going to have to open your mouth...and just ask!
Wanting to spice up the sexual energy in your relationship is nothing to be embarrassed about; in fact, the need to find ways to get closer to your partner is completely natural. But is there a way to keep the chemistry alive from the beginning without having to struggle to reignite the flame?
Sure, men and women have different sexual parts but how different are they really when it comes to sex? Our Experts discuss libido, orgasms and just how the male and female brains really differ when it comes to sexuality.
Sure, there are a lot of reasons to have sex. But is the physical, pleasurable sensation the only reason most people enjoy sex?
It can be difficult not to take it personally when your spouse isn't interested in sex with you anymore. However, trying to see things from their perspective and gaining understanding of their feelings will likely improve the intimacy in your marriage.
Sometimes we mistake sexuality for intimacy. What's the difference? And which is more important for your relationship? Our experts differentiate between the two terms and discuss how to increase your levels of intimacy or sexuality in a relationship.
We've all heard about porn wrecking relationships but can it ever help them? From the secrecy that comes from the fear of being shamed to porn addiction, is it really possible that watching porn could actually lead to a healthy sex life?
Couples who have been together a while sometimes lose the passion they had when they first got together. Expert Gal Szekely explains the most common problems couples have in the bedroom (hint: they aren't just physical) and gives tips on what you can do about them.
We've all gotten a little carried away in the heat of the moment, but saying the wrong thing in bed can bring even the best time to a screeching halt. Hey, those intense love hormones can make you say some crazy stuff. So trust us when we tell you to scratch these phrases from your bedroom vocabulary.
In the years that I have been working with couples, I have seen that there are three basic kinds of marriages. There can be some overlap in the types; but it helps to understand all three, and their uniqueness. I share this categorization because it can help individuals to understand some of the reasons why they may not be fulfilled in their marriages.