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Selfie: Why Do Sexy Women Intimidate Other Women?
All I see are selfies.
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Jealous Of Her Sexy Selfie? You Must Be Insecure

People are taking more and more pictures of themselves and it seems like the pretty women are the ones with hundreds. Not only do you have to deal with the beautiful celebrities, but now everyday people are showing you up. Learn how you can get over the selfie phenom and become a better you.

Relationship is not a four letter word
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Relationship is not a four letter word

The word relationship scares the crap out of otherwise grown, capable and responsible men and women alike. And really all I have to say is NONSENSE. Think about it. Haven't you known at least one person who frets about someone they're dating, subjecting you to hours of “uh God, what is he/she thinking”--only to end with “but it's not like I want a relationship or anything”. But in all fairness, there's no “or anything” about it. What your friend is saying is that they don't want a serious relationship when they are in fact already in one, albeit a casual one. So what's the problem?

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Are you suspicious of strangers?
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5 Signs You're A Jealous Mess

An occasional, mildly jealous episode might actually heighten the interest in your relationship but chronic, pathological jealousy is like a cancer that will destroy any loving feelings that exist in your relationship. With that in mind, here are five signs you are a jealous mess.

"Why Doesn't My Boyfriend Trust Me?"
My boyfriend is overly insecure with me. What can I do?
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"Why Doesn't My Boyfriend Trust Me?"

I need some relationship help. My boyfriend is overly insecure with me — he doesn't trust me at all and he's had these trust problems since the day we met.

The #1 Reason Not To Lie To Your Partner
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The #1 Reason Not To Lie To Your Partner

If you are someone who occasionally lies, you know where your line is. You know when you feel it’s OK to tell a lie, and when you feel you must be truthful. But here's the problem: No one else will ever know where you draw that line. If you lie about even the littlest thing, your spouse or significant other will wonder about everything you say. You will never be able to articulate to your partner how you come to the decision to lie. And just as important, you will never be able to justify it.

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He's a great guy ... but just too clingy.
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10 Signs Your Man Is Too Needy

Insecurity. We've all experienced it. Whether it flares up when you're standing next to a gorgeous woman or because your current flame is in contact with his old flame, we've all been insecure. And, while most of us wouldn't care to admit it, many of us have been needy too.

Why We Investigate His Ex-girlfriends.
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Why We Investigate His Ex-girlfriends.

We’ve all probably done it - looked up his ex-girlfriend on Facebook.  Curiosity is not a problem.  That’s normal.  You want to know what she looks like.  You want to know if you are prettier, sexier, and have a better body.  That’s very normal. But if you have googled, played detective, researched, and practically STALKED his exes, you need to take a look at yourself and why you do it.

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Your body is nothing to be ashamed about!
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4 Ways You Can Learn To Love Your Body

"OMG. OMG. Please don't let him see my kangaroo pouch. The lights. The lights. We need to dim the lights. He can't see my flabby thighs or the cellulite on the back of my ass." You retreat. The fire inside you dims. The pleasurable sensations dull all because you can't let go of those damn body hang-ups.

Dating Insecurities & Inhibitions
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Dating Insecurities & Inhibitions

Dating Insecurities is not the same thing as dating inhibitions but both scenarios will cause havoc in your love life if practiced on a regular basis. While the two are related, inhibitions can just be lack of experimentation or fear of the unknown. Insecurities can be a lot stronger where help may be needed from a therapist to change the deep rooted problem. What are some of the more common insecurities within our relationships?

Is It Normal For Your Man To Notice Other Women?
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Is It Normal For Your Man To Notice Other Women?

Have you ever noticed your husband or boyfriend casting a glance at another woman’s cleavage or tight jeans? If you haven’t, then you probably haven’t been paying attention. Now and then I have a client ask me something like, “Is it normal that my husband was pointing out the college girls in short skirts at the bar last night?” These women ask out of true curiosity, fear, confusion, anger, hurt and even amusment.

Is something wrong with your relationship? Or is it just you?
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Is something wrong with your relationship? Or is it just you?

Relationships are kind of like therapy—they bring all your dirt to the surface so you can work through it and move beyond it. This makes perfect sense because relationships and therapy have the same purpose: growth. Therapy is especially hard in the beginning because you’re becoming aware of all the dirt you’ve been hiding under the surface for so long. Therapy doesn’t create the dirt, it just shines a spotlight on it.

An Insecure Man
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Men Have Insecurities, Just Like Women

You'll never see a dude turn to another dude and ask, "Do I look fat in these pants?" But that doesn't mean men are invulnerable to insecurities, no matter how much we'd like to think so. Women are upfront about their fears, doubts, and self-esteem. I used to think it was just compulsive gabbiness, a quirk of the fairer sex. But, in fact, it is an admirable coping mechanism that's even a little bit courageous. That said, I'll sack up and admit that I've spent a lot of my life feeling like a fatty, a chubasaurus, half-man and half-marshmallow.