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Are you an Olympian of LOVE?

Are you an Olympian of LOVE?

Get inspired to be ALL IN in your love life

The Olympics start tomorrow, and I can’t wait! I am jumping out of my skin with excitement for the opening ceremony. I was watching Oprah’s Next Chapter last Sunday, where she salutes Super Star Olympians. One of my favorite interviews was with Carl Lewis who is a former track athlete and has won 10 Olympic medals. Holy shit! Yes 10, nine of which were gold. He said something so profound that I HAD to share it with all of you. I was inspired.

Change him through this love shift

Change him through this love shift

Changing your perspective will change EVERYTHING

When my husband of two years said to me “I don’t know if I can do this anymore,” I reacted like most- I groveled. I said I would change. Things would be different. I wouldn’t nag him so much, require so much, ask as much. I would keep it together all the time. I would do the things he wanted.

couple painting room red
'50 Shades of Red'? Studies show red adds romance and excitement to any room.

5 Ways The Right Colors Can Spice Up Your Relationship

Choosing specific colors when decorating or picking out a date outfit can sex up your life.

Long-term relationships sometimes need a boost of inspiration to reinvigorate the couple, whether it be in the form of fresh date ideas or breaking routine for a trip. Color can also help.

couple happy cooking
The key to a happy marriage: Do things you both enjoy, together.

5 Tips That Will Save Your Marriage

Hang out with each other, let things go, and more great tips to help you avoid divorce.

By now we've all heard the statistics a zillion times: Half of all marriages end in divorce. But when you really weigh that, it's a scary thought, right? I mean, you're not standing there at the altar, all, "yeah, if this doesn't work, I'll trade him in for a new model," are you? I wasn't. But it's a frightening reality for many. Divorce happens, and sometimes it happens to us.

happy couple relationship
Are you ready for a happier relationship?

Relationship Rehab: 12 Steps To Becoming A Happier Couple In 2012

Your 12-step program to a better, healthier relationship.

The best way to have a happy relationship is to keep working on it, so even if you're not in a relationship rut, follow these 12 tips from our staff and you'll keep being happy!

couple morning kitchen

How To Feel Closer To Your Partner

Busy? Here are instant ways to feel more connected to your spouse.

You don't have to add an extra hour to the day to find time for each other. These six fun strategies can keep you connected immediately.

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101 Ways To Improve Your Relationship Right Now

How to reconnect, strengthen your relationship, improve communication, intimacy, and more.

All relationships need a little pick-me-up sometimes—even the best ones. To that end, YourTango has compiled a list of 101 ways to reconnect with your significant other, right now. Whether you'd like to increase intimacy, find a thoughtful way to say "I love you," or just show your honey some gratitude, we're sure you'll find something useful in the list below.

You Might Need A "Marriage Checkup"

You Might Need A "Marriage Checkup"

To improve your marriage see a therapist or kick out your kids!

Today we bring you two studies about marital satisfaction. It is, in fact, possible to have a happy marriage! Read on to find out how… An ongoing study by the National Institutes of Health suggests that a yearly "marriage checkup" could help people's unions—and bodies—stay healthy. Another way to improve a marriage? Kick out the kids! According to a UC Berkley study, women see improvements in their marriages after their children have moved out of the house.

Marriage Rx: The Silent Treatment

Marriage Rx: The Silent Treatment

Two marriage experts push less talk; more action.

Like other relationship guides, How To Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, written by Oprah-approved therapists Patricia Love and Steven Stosny, promotes tolerance through understanding. Instead of pushing conversations peppered with "I feel..." statements and listening techniques, the authors recommend couples zip their lips and focus on improving the wordless connection between them. The claim is that men falter in relationships because of shame and women because of fear, and discussion only makes these differences more apparent and divisive.